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Doctor visit Tuesday - not liking some realities & have some questions
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<blockquote data-quote="gcvmom" data-source="post: 373553" data-attributes="member: 3444"><p>No advice on this LInda, but I do want to offer a big hug to help relieve some of the shock over this new situation you are facing. This can't be an easy thing to accept, but it certainly does seem in your best interest to accept the help. </p><p> </p><p>I can't imagine a family member charging a fee to act as your financial overseer. It would be different if this were an outsider stepping in. What does your brother say about it? Is he willing to take on this responsibility?</p><p> </p><p>With my father's recent passing, my mom has said she will be putting my name on her checking account as a safety net for the future. I am also named as the executor of her will and the trust she will be putting all of her assets into over the coming months. It just saves a lot of headaches down the road. But I never would consider expecting to collect a fee for any of this responsibility.</p><p> </p><p>Another way to look at this new situation for you is that you have one less thing to worry about and more time to enjoy the things the bring a smile to your day! I think after all you have been through and all that you are working on for yourself, you deserve to have a little help managing the more mundane stuff in life.</p><p> </p><p>(((((Hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gcvmom, post: 373553, member: 3444"] No advice on this LInda, but I do want to offer a big hug to help relieve some of the shock over this new situation you are facing. This can't be an easy thing to accept, but it certainly does seem in your best interest to accept the help. I can't imagine a family member charging a fee to act as your financial overseer. It would be different if this were an outsider stepping in. What does your brother say about it? Is he willing to take on this responsibility? With my father's recent passing, my mom has said she will be putting my name on her checking account as a safety net for the future. I am also named as the executor of her will and the trust she will be putting all of her assets into over the coming months. It just saves a lot of headaches down the road. But I never would consider expecting to collect a fee for any of this responsibility. Another way to look at this new situation for you is that you have one less thing to worry about and more time to enjoy the things the bring a smile to your day! I think after all you have been through and all that you are working on for yourself, you deserve to have a little help managing the more mundane stuff in life. (((((Hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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