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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 513491" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I hadn't read all of your responses before I posted.</p><p></p><p>I do think that you see a need to connect, and are so scared. it is so hard to reach out after so many losses, and right now I am sending you a gentle, loving hug that will lastt as long as you NEED it. not want it, need it. </p><p></p><p>I am worried about you. Not so much because your world is so small, but mostly because you seem so sad and you have such a hard time with pain. You are right that it is the borderline that has you wanting to lash out before another loss can rock your foundations. I hope that they have a good therapist that you can connect with. </p><p></p><p>I know I suggested quite a few ways to work on driving Buck out. I also know you probably are not ready to even think about them. I do think he is a major part of the problem. He is there, pushing every button he can to work on getting YOU to leave so he can have the trailer and Tony's income all to himself. I think that is FAR more his plan than it was to "just" move in wth you and Tony. He knows this is his last sibling willing to do anything to help him in any way. He is working hard to make you snap so he can wrap Tony in "see how you need me to help care for Janet" vibes. </p><p></p><p>I don't know what you are able to do to make him miserable. I am so very sorry that Tony forced you into that situation and there is no real way out unless you can get Buck to leave willingly, convince Tony he is nuts and stealing and/or dangerous, or somehow get Buck locked up. I will help with anything I can, even if it is to try to make him lose what brain he has. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you are hurting so much, and if there is ANY way I can help, I am here for you. In so many ways this forum is more my family than my parents and brother are, and you are incredibly special and precious to me. PLEASE, if and when things look so awful that you can't go on, remember that unfinished afghan you need to finish, and remember how much you are loved. We love you so much, and there is very little we wouldn't help you do if it would help you. Very little.</p><p></p><p>(((((hugs))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 513491, member: 1233"] I hadn't read all of your responses before I posted. I do think that you see a need to connect, and are so scared. it is so hard to reach out after so many losses, and right now I am sending you a gentle, loving hug that will lastt as long as you NEED it. not want it, need it. I am worried about you. Not so much because your world is so small, but mostly because you seem so sad and you have such a hard time with pain. You are right that it is the borderline that has you wanting to lash out before another loss can rock your foundations. I hope that they have a good therapist that you can connect with. I know I suggested quite a few ways to work on driving Buck out. I also know you probably are not ready to even think about them. I do think he is a major part of the problem. He is there, pushing every button he can to work on getting YOU to leave so he can have the trailer and Tony's income all to himself. I think that is FAR more his plan than it was to "just" move in wth you and Tony. He knows this is his last sibling willing to do anything to help him in any way. He is working hard to make you snap so he can wrap Tony in "see how you need me to help care for Janet" vibes. I don't know what you are able to do to make him miserable. I am so very sorry that Tony forced you into that situation and there is no real way out unless you can get Buck to leave willingly, convince Tony he is nuts and stealing and/or dangerous, or somehow get Buck locked up. I will help with anything I can, even if it is to try to make him lose what brain he has. I am so sorry you are hurting so much, and if there is ANY way I can help, I am here for you. In so many ways this forum is more my family than my parents and brother are, and you are incredibly special and precious to me. PLEASE, if and when things look so awful that you can't go on, remember that unfinished afghan you need to finish, and remember how much you are loved. We love you so much, and there is very little we wouldn't help you do if it would help you. Very little. (((((hugs)))))) [/QUOTE]
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