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Does anyone know how to parent and control a "rockstar" 16 year old??
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 599475" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You can't parent him at all. He is already enmeshed in drugs and alcohol. He needs serious rehab out of the home. I thought my daughter was early with drugs...she smoked pot at 12. Sounds like your son is already into cocaine and who knows w hat else? Most of us would be focused on that drug use and getting help for that Forget the band. He won't be able to play in any band if he has an overdose. Yes, I am blunt.</p><p></p><p>I would have put the kabash on that sixteen/nineteen year old girlfriend. The police would have been called for messing with a minor. Plus I would have called HER. Why did you allow that???? I'm totally shocked. To me sounds like the cocaine and the older girl didn't even bother you that much. I'll tell you right now, it is NOT over. That lack of sleep is probably some drug, snorting ampetimines and/or cocaine or meth. You are in serious denial. Do you ever check his room, his Facebook, his cell phone to see what he's up to? in my opinion you need to try to get his/her child into rehab, counseling, and anything else to slow down the pace of him. He is still a child. He gave you the middle finger? Really? Is there a dad around to teach him manners? Any male who is a strong influence? One hopefully with strong values?</p><p></p><p>Kids still need b oundaries in their teenage years or, as you see, they can get out totally out of control. Your son is in a very dangerous situation. I hope you choose to keep him closer to home and get him rehab help. Check his closets, under his mattress, anywhere he could be hidng drugs. If you find them, well, we called the police. Your decision is yours alone. You may want to start going to Nar-Anon or Al-Anon.</p><p></p><p>How old is he now? Why on earth don't you want to restrict him and what does "fly on his own" mean? Why don't you stop him from being in this band with such destructive people? How is he doing in school? Does he have siblings? You may want to do a signature like I did below. It will help us.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and welcome. I'm so sorry you had to be here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 599475, member: 1550"] You can't parent him at all. He is already enmeshed in drugs and alcohol. He needs serious rehab out of the home. I thought my daughter was early with drugs...she smoked pot at 12. Sounds like your son is already into cocaine and who knows w hat else? Most of us would be focused on that drug use and getting help for that Forget the band. He won't be able to play in any band if he has an overdose. Yes, I am blunt. I would have put the kabash on that sixteen/nineteen year old girlfriend. The police would have been called for messing with a minor. Plus I would have called HER. Why did you allow that???? I'm totally shocked. To me sounds like the cocaine and the older girl didn't even bother you that much. I'll tell you right now, it is NOT over. That lack of sleep is probably some drug, snorting ampetimines and/or cocaine or meth. You are in serious denial. Do you ever check his room, his Facebook, his cell phone to see what he's up to? in my opinion you need to try to get his/her child into rehab, counseling, and anything else to slow down the pace of him. He is still a child. He gave you the middle finger? Really? Is there a dad around to teach him manners? Any male who is a strong influence? One hopefully with strong values? Kids still need b oundaries in their teenage years or, as you see, they can get out totally out of control. Your son is in a very dangerous situation. I hope you choose to keep him closer to home and get him rehab help. Check his closets, under his mattress, anywhere he could be hidng drugs. If you find them, well, we called the police. Your decision is yours alone. You may want to start going to Nar-Anon or Al-Anon. How old is he now? Why on earth don't you want to restrict him and what does "fly on his own" mean? Why don't you stop him from being in this band with such destructive people? How is he doing in school? Does he have siblings? You may want to do a signature like I did below. It will help us. Hugs and welcome. I'm so sorry you had to be here. [/QUOTE]
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