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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 274176" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>That is my easy child now. </p><p></p><p>It's not that he broke up with his girlfriend. Part of it is how he handled the relationship, but that's a sign of his furthering behavior. I can't even talk about it all. I'm too hurt and humiliated. </p><p></p><p>6 months ago I never dreamed I would ever want him to move out. Now, I can barely stand to be around him. It's been this way for a couple of months and has gotten dramatically worse over the last 3 weeks. </p><p></p><p>I just got off the phone with my mom. She's crying and says she doesn't want to know anything about him. She doesn't know where he is, what he's doing, who his friends are... </p><p></p><p>Then she said something else. I had easy child 6 days after I turned 18. She watched him while I worked. She has always felt like he was hers. She had been wanting another baby not long before I had easy child. There were a lot of huge boundary issues between us with easy child until easy child was about 13 or so. And easy child played it to the hilt. </p><p></p><p>Tonight she said, "I always felt like he was mine, but I didn't get to finish it."</p><p></p><p>My emotions are so raw. I felt like I had been stabbed in the back. Like she was saying that I failed my child. That if she had raised him, things would be different.</p><p></p><p>I just can't do this right now. I don't think I have the strength.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 274176, member: 7083"] That is my easy child now. It's not that he broke up with his girlfriend. Part of it is how he handled the relationship, but that's a sign of his furthering behavior. I can't even talk about it all. I'm too hurt and humiliated. 6 months ago I never dreamed I would ever want him to move out. Now, I can barely stand to be around him. It's been this way for a couple of months and has gotten dramatically worse over the last 3 weeks. I just got off the phone with my mom. She's crying and says she doesn't want to know anything about him. She doesn't know where he is, what he's doing, who his friends are... Then she said something else. I had easy child 6 days after I turned 18. She watched him while I worked. She has always felt like he was hers. She had been wanting another baby not long before I had easy child. There were a lot of huge boundary issues between us with easy child until easy child was about 13 or so. And easy child played it to the hilt. Tonight she said, "I always felt like he was mine, but I didn't get to finish it." My emotions are so raw. I felt like I had been stabbed in the back. Like she was saying that I failed my child. That if she had raised him, things would be different. I just can't do this right now. I don't think I have the strength. [/QUOTE]
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