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Does this pain ever end? i an overwhelmed.
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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 452326" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>The best help you can give your pot smoking, self centered, irresponsible, thieving 19 year old son is to do exactly what he's asked: DO NOT LOOK FOR HIM, LEAVE HIM ALONE. Next, start going to al-anon meetings as often as you can, everyday if necessary. You MUST learn to detach so your heart isn't breaking all the time, so you don't allow your son back into your home to steal from you, to wake your neighbors pounding on the door, to disrespect you. Believe me, if you continue to allow him back into your home, you will NOT be helping him, you will be enabling him, holding him back...helping him to stay exactly as he is today. The best help you can give him is to let him be on his own and fail and pick up the prices of his life on his own. We know it's difficult, been there done that, but consider it self preservation, caring for yourself FIRST. Big gentle hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 452326, member: 2211"] The best help you can give your pot smoking, self centered, irresponsible, thieving 19 year old son is to do exactly what he's asked: DO NOT LOOK FOR HIM, LEAVE HIM ALONE. Next, start going to al-anon meetings as often as you can, everyday if necessary. You MUST learn to detach so your heart isn't breaking all the time, so you don't allow your son back into your home to steal from you, to wake your neighbors pounding on the door, to disrespect you. Believe me, if you continue to allow him back into your home, you will NOT be helping him, you will be enabling him, holding him back...helping him to stay exactly as he is today. The best help you can give him is to let him be on his own and fail and pick up the prices of his life on his own. We know it's difficult, been there done that, but consider it self preservation, caring for yourself FIRST. Big gentle hugs. [/QUOTE]
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