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Does this pain ever end? i an overwhelmed.
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<blockquote data-quote="Hopingforthe best" data-source="post: 452762" data-attributes="member: 12294"><p>Thank you all for the encouragement and a big hug to the other parents going through similar experiences. I am trying my best to detach. I made an appointment to see a therapist next week. I also researched al-non meetings in our area and found they meet everyday in different locations so i intend to start going on monday.</p><p></p><p>My son - i will start calling him k now, have not returned home. Yesterday i decided to disconnect his phone which had been on my family plan and called him to inform him about it. He was mad about it (incredible), and asked me if i could wait for one more day before shutting it off which i refused. Its disconnected now and i don't have to open my at&t online account every two hours which was becoming an obssesion. </p><p></p><p>For those who had not seen my first post in june, i had mentioned that k was a permanent resident in this country and also he had gun charges pending at the local superior court. The da had told his lawyer that the charges would be dropped by the end of this month and all k had to do was go before the judge and explain what had happened the day he was arrested since the police and the da's office didn't believe the story he told the first time. Janet, the reason i have not pressed charges is because i didn't want to make things worse. I had paid a lawyer 15,000 dollars, and was hoping the case would be resolved so all that money would not go to waste. I know i am not helping but i also know if he doesn't stop what he is doing, he will end up in jail and after jail, he will be deported. Somebody mentioned before that he would probably be better of if he was deported, and though its very painful, that will probably save him.</p><p></p><p>Mom of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) kid, the 5000 dollars was a college scholarship he got after doing 8 weeks of internship at our church. I called the pasor and told him about it, but it was too late because the cheque had already been released to him. The pastor has been trying to talk to him and warning him not to spend that money but who knows what he has been doing? Oh, i forgot to metion that he has been sneaking into my house during the day to shower and change, i guess i'll have to change the locks soon. </p><p></p><p>Thanks again for your support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopingforthe best, post: 452762, member: 12294"] Thank you all for the encouragement and a big hug to the other parents going through similar experiences. I am trying my best to detach. I made an appointment to see a therapist next week. I also researched al-non meetings in our area and found they meet everyday in different locations so i intend to start going on monday. My son - i will start calling him k now, have not returned home. Yesterday i decided to disconnect his phone which had been on my family plan and called him to inform him about it. He was mad about it (incredible), and asked me if i could wait for one more day before shutting it off which i refused. Its disconnected now and i don't have to open my at&t online account every two hours which was becoming an obssesion. For those who had not seen my first post in june, i had mentioned that k was a permanent resident in this country and also he had gun charges pending at the local superior court. The da had told his lawyer that the charges would be dropped by the end of this month and all k had to do was go before the judge and explain what had happened the day he was arrested since the police and the da's office didn't believe the story he told the first time. Janet, the reason i have not pressed charges is because i didn't want to make things worse. I had paid a lawyer 15,000 dollars, and was hoping the case would be resolved so all that money would not go to waste. I know i am not helping but i also know if he doesn't stop what he is doing, he will end up in jail and after jail, he will be deported. Somebody mentioned before that he would probably be better of if he was deported, and though its very painful, that will probably save him. Mom of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) kid, the 5000 dollars was a college scholarship he got after doing 8 weeks of internship at our church. I called the pasor and told him about it, but it was too late because the cheque had already been released to him. The pastor has been trying to talk to him and warning him not to spend that money but who knows what he has been doing? Oh, i forgot to metion that he has been sneaking into my house during the day to shower and change, i guess i'll have to change the locks soon. Thanks again for your support. [/QUOTE]
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