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My 45 year old daughter blames me. I think the funniest one she brought up was that I never gave her a baby shower. I love both of my granddaughters very much. The daddy is a diagnosed schizophrenic with PTSD. She met him in a rv park and decided to have 1st one because she wanted a child and he had blonde hair and blue eyes which she liked. It wasn't long before he wrapped his hands around her neck while on an interstate highway with baby in the back seat. But then she decided to have another baby with him so the first one wouldn't be an only child. Then she married him. Then he broke her nose. I never thought of having a baby shower. Never entered my mind. I thought friends gave the shower. At least that's how it was in the old days. But I dfd include it in my amends letter because she brought it up once when she was on a tear. Because I wanted to validate her feelings. Because i didn't understand who she was or what she came to the earth to do. She saw herself as some sort of enlightened being, an indfigo child. Oh my gosh. Am I missing something here? There's more that I did wrong in her opinion, but I'll stop here. Honestly there were some things I did or didn't do raising her, but I've acknowledged them and apologized several times

<blockquote data-quote="Mamacat" data-source="post: 705993" data-attributes="member: 20962"><p>My 45 year old daughter blames me. I think the funniest one she brought up was that I never gave her a baby shower. I love both of my granddaughters very much. The daddy is a diagnosed schizophrenic with PTSD. She met him in a rv park and decided to have 1st one because she wanted a child and he had blonde hair and blue eyes which she liked. It wasn't long before he wrapped his hands around her neck while on an interstate highway with baby in the back seat. But then she decided to have another baby with him so the first one wouldn't be an only child.&nbsp; Then she married him. Then he broke her nose. I never thought of having a baby shower. Never entered my mind. I thought friends gave the shower. At least that's how it was in the old days. But I dfd include it in my amends letter because she brought it up once when she was on a tear. Because I wanted to validate her feelings. Because i didn't understand who she was or what she came to the earth to do. She saw herself as some sort of enlightened being, an indfigo child.&nbsp; Oh my gosh. Am I missing something here?&nbsp; There's more that I did wrong in her opinion, but I'll stop here.&nbsp; Honestly there were some things I did or didn't do raising her, but I've acknowledged them and apologized several times</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Mamacat, post: 705993, member: 20962"] My 45 year old daughter blames me. I think the funniest one she brought up was that I never gave her a baby shower. I love both of my granddaughters very much. The daddy is a diagnosed schizophrenic with PTSD. She met him in a rv park and decided to have 1st one because she wanted a child and he had blonde hair and blue eyes which she liked. It wasn't long before he wrapped his hands around her neck while on an interstate highway with baby in the back seat. But then she decided to have another baby with him so the first one wouldn't be an only child. Then she married him. Then he broke her nose. I never thought of having a baby shower. Never entered my mind. I thought friends gave the shower. At least that's how it was in the old days. But I dfd include it in my amends letter because she brought it up once when she was on a tear. Because I wanted to validate her feelings. Because i didn't understand who she was or what she came to the earth to do. She saw herself as some sort of enlightened being, an indfigo child. Oh my gosh. Am I missing something here? There's more that I did wrong in her opinion, but I'll stop here. Honestly there were some things I did or didn't do raising her, but I've acknowledged them and apologized several times [/QUOTE]

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