She has NEVER held a job for long and that was in her late 20s early 30s she has not worked for 7 years at this point. When she did have a job (and she has had some very good ones in the past) alls it takes is for someone to make her angry or criticize her or correct her on something and she goes into a rage and walks out, always just WALKS OUT !! She says now that she is unable to work because she cant deal with people. She started school a couple times, but that didn't last long either. So she has been on welfare and food stamps and using her 17 year olds child support check for her own needs, he turns 18 in August and that check will be gone. She also makes a little money working on a porn site on the computer (which totally disgusts me). Can she really be THAT impaired even if she does have Borderline (BPD)? She has no car (which I have bought her 2 used cars in the past and will never do that again, because she does not take care of anything!) alls she does is sit in the house or outside with the 3 year old. Now that she isn't speaking to me she calls her 20 year old and asks him to bring her cigarettes. I heard that her boyfriend is staying with another girl right now, and my daughter and my 3 year old grandchild are still living with his dad! Weird situation!!