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She can't deal with people, meaning people are not going to do what she wants them to do.


She most likely suffers from some personality disorder, but you can't help that and since she sounds able to hurt you I feel it's a risk to take her in.


People with Borderline (BPD) can and usually do work, although they often have altercations with their co-workers because they can not accept authority.


STOP BUYING HER THINGS! YIKES! CARS?????


The only person who can help your daughter is herself and that begins with her accepting that she has many issues and needs intensive, long term therapy. She CAN work, she just WON'T work unless everyone caters to her and nobody gets her angry.


She can apply for SSDI or SSI if she feels sh e is disabled, but she would then be assessed. That could lead to her having free medical, that could lead to her getting help.


Can't say it too often: Don't let her come to your house. It will be a disaster.


I also recommend telling your other children not to tell you what this daughter has said to them. Go low contact. She is not going to be able to be the daughter you want unless she gets tons of help.


Hugs and good luck.


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