Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Done!!!done!!!!done!!!!
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="gwenny" data-source="post: 266089" data-attributes="member: 6852"><p>Well husband and I had a very long conversation with no yelling just a calm talk. I made him hear how afraid I am of difficult child. I told him that there was nothing I wouldnt have done for him 6 months ago, but I have had enough. I don't think it's fair that difficult child is able to to do this to us. I told him after he had a conversation with his ex-wife that I feel even more so convinced that if she would rather see him in juvie than him coming home. The ex stated that she cannot have difficult child come home and destroy her life or the other childs life. </p><p></p><p>So that being said I told my husband that it is not fair to ask me to put my easy child, or myself in the line of fire for difficult child. husband works long hours and I cannot endure anymore of this. I said I feel and the doctor feels that he is capable of commiiting murder or worse and that's not a chance I'm willing to take. I said to husband I love you with all my heart and would still help him to do research on this but I will be having to find a place to live. </p><p></p><p>This is really breaking my heart because husband is in such turmoil with what to do and only he can decide. He does feel that difficult child wouldnt last 1 day in the home as we have seen the behaviors escalate. I worry for husband as well but he can physcially handle himself. This is something that I wouldnt wish on anyone. I also explained that I understand that there is no choice to be made and he has to do what he can to try for his son, but he feels that difficult child is gone and that there is no reaching him.</p><p></p><p>It's just so sad to have found the one man I have truly loved and it has to come to this because there are no facilities to help the sick. I am just so discouraged and heartbroken. Tears have been flowing for I feel I have started mourning the end of a happy marrriage prior to difficult child. </p><p></p><p>Thank you all for your support, and hope one day there is help for all of us.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gwenny, post: 266089, member: 6852"] Well husband and I had a very long conversation with no yelling just a calm talk. I made him hear how afraid I am of difficult child. I told him that there was nothing I wouldnt have done for him 6 months ago, but I have had enough. I don't think it's fair that difficult child is able to to do this to us. I told him after he had a conversation with his ex-wife that I feel even more so convinced that if she would rather see him in juvie than him coming home. The ex stated that she cannot have difficult child come home and destroy her life or the other childs life. So that being said I told my husband that it is not fair to ask me to put my easy child, or myself in the line of fire for difficult child. husband works long hours and I cannot endure anymore of this. I said I feel and the doctor feels that he is capable of commiiting murder or worse and that's not a chance I'm willing to take. I said to husband I love you with all my heart and would still help him to do research on this but I will be having to find a place to live. This is really breaking my heart because husband is in such turmoil with what to do and only he can decide. He does feel that difficult child wouldnt last 1 day in the home as we have seen the behaviors escalate. I worry for husband as well but he can physcially handle himself. This is something that I wouldnt wish on anyone. I also explained that I understand that there is no choice to be made and he has to do what he can to try for his son, but he feels that difficult child is gone and that there is no reaching him. It's just so sad to have found the one man I have truly loved and it has to come to this because there are no facilities to help the sick. I am just so discouraged and heartbroken. Tears have been flowing for I feel I have started mourning the end of a happy marrriage prior to difficult child. Thank you all for your support, and hope one day there is help for all of us.:knockedout: [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Done!!!done!!!!done!!!!
Top