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Done with Parents. I tried one more time and it was awful.
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 435740" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Jody, </p><p> </p><p>You have a kid that is 1/2 white? OMG! I never would have guessed that. Sheesh! Well good for you! I guess overall your parents are the ones that I pity. They've had 23 years to miss a wonderful woman, daughter, Mother to a wonderful Granddaughter, and how horrible is it that they've missed the blessing of a Granddaughter who I am sure is beautiful, sweet, lovely, talented, kind, and would have been and could have been the apple of anyone's eye. How sad, and lonely their lives must be living in their own private hell never going any further than the distance of their hate inside their own minds. Such a small space to dwell in. Not even really living - because when you have hate that deep? You don't live - you exist. </p><p> </p><p>As far as missing out on having parents? I can understand so well for you my friend how badly this must hurt, because I got lucky. I wasn't wanted at birth, and got adopted and had wonderful parents who gave me the world. Without them? I don't know if I would have been as kind, loving and nice as you are, and that's saying a lot because I haven't known you all that long - but you get a feel for people after you're so old, lived so long, lived so much, survived many things. Isn't it wild? You didn't have what I had and there you are - YOU - sweet, wonderful you. Even without all the things that you think you are lacking in the world, and even years later trying to see if you are still missing out on - yet you're not. You haven't missed a thing, because you became you not in spite of - but for the lack of. Amazing if you ask me. I wouldn't ever tell anyone you don't need em or anything like that, but look at you - look.at.you. Look at your family. Look at your daughter. Look what you have accomplished, and you did all that - on your own. Congratulations, you are quite a unique person. Not a survivor...and overcomer. And better yet? You've raised a daughter with those values as well. Bravo Mom. </p><p> </p><p>It's probably a better thing that you were not raised around all the negativity...and your baby too. Maybe not how YOU had it planned, but then again? Sometimes I wonder even with free will - and all that how much control do we really have. lol. </p><p> </p><p>Anyway - I'm very glad that we have you too. And I'm glad that you understand there is no fault in what happened. Some stuff just happens, and as humans we ALWAYS want to stick a human condition to it to make ourselves feel better or make sense of things - make it tangable. Your parents? You can't make any more sense of what happened there than they had mental illness - and leave it at that. You know you'll always have a family here. (some of us are a little funnier AND i DON'T MEAN HAHA.. than others and I won't mention any names _ but all in all - good people) Just watch out for Mstang.....lol and do not loan her your bicycle no matter HOW much she begs</p><p> </p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 435740, member: 4964"] Jody, You have a kid that is 1/2 white? OMG! I never would have guessed that. Sheesh! Well good for you! I guess overall your parents are the ones that I pity. They've had 23 years to miss a wonderful woman, daughter, Mother to a wonderful Granddaughter, and how horrible is it that they've missed the blessing of a Granddaughter who I am sure is beautiful, sweet, lovely, talented, kind, and would have been and could have been the apple of anyone's eye. How sad, and lonely their lives must be living in their own private hell never going any further than the distance of their hate inside their own minds. Such a small space to dwell in. Not even really living - because when you have hate that deep? You don't live - you exist. As far as missing out on having parents? I can understand so well for you my friend how badly this must hurt, because I got lucky. I wasn't wanted at birth, and got adopted and had wonderful parents who gave me the world. Without them? I don't know if I would have been as kind, loving and nice as you are, and that's saying a lot because I haven't known you all that long - but you get a feel for people after you're so old, lived so long, lived so much, survived many things. Isn't it wild? You didn't have what I had and there you are - YOU - sweet, wonderful you. Even without all the things that you think you are lacking in the world, and even years later trying to see if you are still missing out on - yet you're not. You haven't missed a thing, because you became you not in spite of - but for the lack of. Amazing if you ask me. I wouldn't ever tell anyone you don't need em or anything like that, but look at you - look.at.you. Look at your family. Look at your daughter. Look what you have accomplished, and you did all that - on your own. Congratulations, you are quite a unique person. Not a survivor...and overcomer. And better yet? You've raised a daughter with those values as well. Bravo Mom. It's probably a better thing that you were not raised around all the negativity...and your baby too. Maybe not how YOU had it planned, but then again? Sometimes I wonder even with free will - and all that how much control do we really have. lol. Anyway - I'm very glad that we have you too. And I'm glad that you understand there is no fault in what happened. Some stuff just happens, and as humans we ALWAYS want to stick a human condition to it to make ourselves feel better or make sense of things - make it tangable. Your parents? You can't make any more sense of what happened there than they had mental illness - and leave it at that. You know you'll always have a family here. (some of us are a little funnier AND i DON'T MEAN HAHA.. than others and I won't mention any names _ but all in all - good people) Just watch out for Mstang.....lol and do not loan her your bicycle no matter HOW much she begs Hugs & Love Star [/QUOTE]
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