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Dont blink...I think Cory is moving out!
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar I" data-source="post: 47882" data-attributes="member: 3755"><p>Oh good, Janet. You both have been through the wringer with Cory these past few months. (I am glad your husband is doing so well. I think we must have been traveling or something when husband was hospitalized. I remember reading about it, but not how everything came out. I am glad to hear he is doing so well.)</p><p></p><p>Now you will be able to find out who you are, and who you and husband are together. It's amazing what a difference it makes once we are no longer involved in the resentment and sense of entitlement difficult child kids seem to feel for us.</p><p></p><p>All at once, you and husband will begin to see one another as gentle, interesting, compassionate people again.</p><p></p><p>That's really the cost of living with a difficult child, I think.</p><p></p><p>We need to learn to be so guarded and cynical just to survive with them that it rubs off onto our relationships.</p><p></p><p>It's like neither party can be his or her best self, or see the best self in the other.</p><p></p><p>Like everyone, I wish Cory well ~ but I am happiest for you and husband and the changed relationship with each other that will come for both of you once this adjustment phase is completed. </p><p></p><p>You will be surprised. :smile:</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar I, post: 47882, member: 3755"] Oh good, Janet. You both have been through the wringer with Cory these past few months. (I am glad your husband is doing so well. I think we must have been traveling or something when husband was hospitalized. I remember reading about it, but not how everything came out. I am glad to hear he is doing so well.) Now you will be able to find out who you are, and who you and husband are together. It's amazing what a difference it makes once we are no longer involved in the resentment and sense of entitlement difficult child kids seem to feel for us. All at once, you and husband will begin to see one another as gentle, interesting, compassionate people again. That's really the cost of living with a difficult child, I think. We need to learn to be so guarded and cynical just to survive with them that it rubs off onto our relationships. It's like neither party can be his or her best self, or see the best self in the other. Like everyone, I wish Cory well ~ but I am happiest for you and husband and the changed relationship with each other that will come for both of you once this adjustment phase is completed. You will be surprised. [img]:smile:[/img] Barbara [/QUOTE]
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