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Don't know where difficult child is - would you search?
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<blockquote data-quote="slsh" data-source="post: 233095" data-attributes="member: 8"><p>Awww Judi - I'm sorry your kid is so thoughtless. I don't know how/why they turn out that way, but... I'm expecting to be in your shoes shortly.</p><p> </p><p>I think you do have to follow your gut. If you need to know, then absolutely look.</p><p> </p><p>I can't say for sure, but I don't think in thank you's case I would. Heck, I don't even get real assertive in keeping tabs on him now. I know what he's doing (bad stuff), know what he isn't doing (good stuff) - most of the time, none of the adults in his life have a clue of where he is. But I don't actually need confirmation. </p><p> </p><p>I guess for me, and this is just my opinion, I don't want to know because there's not a doggone thing I can do about it other than make myself ill with worry, and then the entire family suffers because when I'm nuts they have to live with me.</p><p> </p><p>Of course, it would be nice if your kiddo is employed, housed, and getting his life straight. If my kid managed that then I might like to know - but... well, you know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="slsh, post: 233095, member: 8"] Awww Judi - I'm sorry your kid is so thoughtless. I don't know how/why they turn out that way, but... I'm expecting to be in your shoes shortly. I think you do have to follow your gut. If you need to know, then absolutely look. I can't say for sure, but I don't think in thank you's case I would. Heck, I don't even get real assertive in keeping tabs on him now. I know what he's doing (bad stuff), know what he isn't doing (good stuff) - most of the time, none of the adults in his life have a clue of where he is. But I don't actually need confirmation. I guess for me, and this is just my opinion, I don't want to know because there's not a doggone thing I can do about it other than make myself ill with worry, and then the entire family suffers because when I'm nuts they have to live with me. Of course, it would be nice if your kiddo is employed, housed, and getting his life straight. If my kid managed that then I might like to know - but... well, you know. [/QUOTE]
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