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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 511762" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>It really is a difficult situation. I agree that the cats must be removed. My Downes nephew lives in an apartment in CA, the entire complex is special needs adults.</p><p></p><p>It may only be short term (hopefully) but from what you have described she has mental illness. She can get help and you will probably have to make her, it's for her own good. Also, the child support is not going to be there forever so she needs another means of support.</p><p></p><p>I agree with Susie, if you take her in it's going to cause problems for the grand and she deserves to have some stability. Also, if she moves in, the way she is now with no mental help, it may be very hard to get any kind of help for her.</p><p></p><p>I would be concerned about leaving my house vacant for 2 weeks too. California has some of the best programs for special needs in the US. She is an adult and she is homeless, look online for programs in your area. She is probably eligible for disability too. </p><p></p><p>in my opinion is will not good to allow her in your home, but sounds like she is not able to work either. Start with calling her probation officer and explain her situation, they may be able to help. Can her stored item go into your garage??</p><p></p><p>As you stated she is not drinking or using drugs, she just can't take care of herself. When I visited my sister it was so sad to see the homeless, so obvious that many of them had metal health issues.</p><p></p><p>(((hugs and blessings)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 511762, member: 13558"] It really is a difficult situation. I agree that the cats must be removed. My Downes nephew lives in an apartment in CA, the entire complex is special needs adults. It may only be short term (hopefully) but from what you have described she has mental illness. She can get help and you will probably have to make her, it's for her own good. Also, the child support is not going to be there forever so she needs another means of support. I agree with Susie, if you take her in it's going to cause problems for the grand and she deserves to have some stability. Also, if she moves in, the way she is now with no mental help, it may be very hard to get any kind of help for her. I would be concerned about leaving my house vacant for 2 weeks too. California has some of the best programs for special needs in the US. She is an adult and she is homeless, look online for programs in your area. She is probably eligible for disability too. in my opinion is will not good to allow her in your home, but sounds like she is not able to work either. Start with calling her probation officer and explain her situation, they may be able to help. Can her stored item go into your garage?? As you stated she is not drinking or using drugs, she just can't take care of herself. When I visited my sister it was so sad to see the homeless, so obvious that many of them had metal health issues. (((hugs and blessings))) [/QUOTE]
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