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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 511832" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am not sure what the exact term for vulnerable adult is. It is something that TimerLady mentioned in a post a while ago in regards to having her twins classified as vulnerable adults so that there would be some supervision in place for them after age 18. It may be that a guardianship or competency or conservatorship could be put into place. You would probably need an attorney to help achieve this designation for your daughter. </p><p></p><p>As for the cats, have you spoken to the animal control officers? I have found that the police/sheriff dept and the animal control officers often have significantly different rules to follow and while a sheriff's deputy might not be able to do anything, the animal control officers might be better able to help you and the cats. You could also contact the SPCA or humane society to see what they can do to help take these animals into their care with-o making you a target for a lawsuit from your daughter for getting rid of her cats. As a cat lover, I truly feel for your position. </p><p></p><p>I truly respect the way you have taken care of your granddau and respected her wishes and kept those boundaries in place to protect her. I know it is hard for you, but you really are doing a wonderful job of raising your granddau and trying to help your daughter. I am sure that Star's take on what your granddau may be thinking is realistic and something that you can help with and maybe she could see a therapist to help her work these issues out. </p><p></p><p>Many hugs to both of you</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 511832, member: 1233"] I am not sure what the exact term for vulnerable adult is. It is something that TimerLady mentioned in a post a while ago in regards to having her twins classified as vulnerable adults so that there would be some supervision in place for them after age 18. It may be that a guardianship or competency or conservatorship could be put into place. You would probably need an attorney to help achieve this designation for your daughter. As for the cats, have you spoken to the animal control officers? I have found that the police/sheriff dept and the animal control officers often have significantly different rules to follow and while a sheriff's deputy might not be able to do anything, the animal control officers might be better able to help you and the cats. You could also contact the SPCA or humane society to see what they can do to help take these animals into their care with-o making you a target for a lawsuit from your daughter for getting rid of her cats. As a cat lover, I truly feel for your position. I truly respect the way you have taken care of your granddau and respected her wishes and kept those boundaries in place to protect her. I know it is hard for you, but you really are doing a wonderful job of raising your granddau and trying to help your daughter. I am sure that Star's take on what your granddau may be thinking is realistic and something that you can help with and maybe she could see a therapist to help her work these issues out. Many hugs to both of you [/QUOTE]
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