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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 302269" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>I'm just going as a spectator and to make sure that husband and difficult child don't try to save difficult child by blaming me or my kids for planting the pills on him. I don't even know if I will say anything even if difficult child and husband do decide to throw the rest of us under the bus. I'm sure the judge has heard it before.</p><p> </p><p>husband has said to the child protective service lady that he will testify against difficult child if he has to. If I'm there I think he's less likely to blame anyone else but difficult child for the pills, or at least not blame the rest of the family. If I'm not there, he may. If he thinks his marriage is in the toilet now, just see what kind of a worse place it can be if he tries to shift the blame to us. I have a atty appointment for Sep 11.</p><p> </p><p>And maybe husband would do the right thing and tell the truth finally about difficult child. If so, I'd like to see it.</p><p> </p><p>In any case, husband has not been reliable about providing honest complete information about what's going on with difficult child for a long time now. He's been playing gatekeeper, making sure people only get the information he thinks they should have and putting his spin on it. He doesn't just do that to me, he does it to everyone: me, the docs, his family, the school, even to difficult child himself. So if I want to know what goes on in the courtroom, I'm going to have to be there.</p><p> </p><p>But even if husband throws us under the bus I don't know what I'd do about it. I can hardly jump up from the spectator seats and scream: "That's not true!". However, if husband throws us under the bus, I want to know about it and not get the husband-version hours later.</p><p> </p><p>It will be good for everyone, particularly husband, if husband doesn't have much say in the proceedings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 302269, member: 5169"] I'm just going as a spectator and to make sure that husband and difficult child don't try to save difficult child by blaming me or my kids for planting the pills on him. I don't even know if I will say anything even if difficult child and husband do decide to throw the rest of us under the bus. I'm sure the judge has heard it before. husband has said to the child protective service lady that he will testify against difficult child if he has to. If I'm there I think he's less likely to blame anyone else but difficult child for the pills, or at least not blame the rest of the family. If I'm not there, he may. If he thinks his marriage is in the toilet now, just see what kind of a worse place it can be if he tries to shift the blame to us. I have a atty appointment for Sep 11. And maybe husband would do the right thing and tell the truth finally about difficult child. If so, I'd like to see it. In any case, husband has not been reliable about providing honest complete information about what's going on with difficult child for a long time now. He's been playing gatekeeper, making sure people only get the information he thinks they should have and putting his spin on it. He doesn't just do that to me, he does it to everyone: me, the docs, his family, the school, even to difficult child himself. So if I want to know what goes on in the courtroom, I'm going to have to be there. But even if husband throws us under the bus I don't know what I'd do about it. I can hardly jump up from the spectator seats and scream: "That's not true!". However, if husband throws us under the bus, I want to know about it and not get the husband-version hours later. It will be good for everyone, particularly husband, if husband doesn't have much say in the proceedings. [/QUOTE]
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