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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 302699" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>WSM--</p><p> </p><p>husband is telling you that he plans to protect his son at all costs. He is going to "support" him. He does not want you in court because you will NOT "support" him.</p><p> </p><p>I do not think it is any accident that husband used the same word to describe what he needs to do for his son and what he accuses you of lacking. There is NO WAY that any therapist or public defender or anyone else "yelled at husband for not being <em>supportive</em>". (And if you needed any more proof, how is that hard to hear about your kid? It makes no sense...).</p><p> </p><p>husband did not hear what he wanted to hear. Period.</p><p> </p><p>Things are not going the way husband wants them.</p><p> </p><p>husband has now developed a new plan to "support" difficult child come h*** or high water...and he knows that you will not go along with it.</p><p> </p><p>And truthfully, if court officials are willing to meet with him ahead of the court date, it makes me think that they are, in fact, trying to work out some kind of "deal". As in, <em>OK--After meeting difficult child, Dr. So-and-so, has offered to admit him to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for treatment because he feels that difficult child is not competent to stand trial. If you would sign these papers, we can proceed.</em>....</p><p> </p><p>THAT would be very hard for husband to hear about his kid. <em>AND</em> a reason that a therapist or public defender might have yelled at husband for not taking advantage of the best possible way to help his child.</p><p> </p><p>And if they are now scheduling a new round of evaluations with therapists, it is because after some yelling back and forth, husband demanded a second opinion (because, you know, nobody else thinks there are any problems with difficult child).</p><p> </p><p>Definitely go to court....</p><p> </p><p>Stay strong.</p><p> </p><p>--DaisyF</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 302699, member: 6546"] WSM-- husband is telling you that he plans to protect his son at all costs. He is going to "support" him. He does not want you in court because you will NOT "support" him. I do not think it is any accident that husband used the same word to describe what he needs to do for his son and what he accuses you of lacking. There is NO WAY that any therapist or public defender or anyone else "yelled at husband for not being [I]supportive[/I]". (And if you needed any more proof, how is that hard to hear about your kid? It makes no sense...). husband did not hear what he wanted to hear. Period. Things are not going the way husband wants them. husband has now developed a new plan to "support" difficult child come h*** or high water...and he knows that you will not go along with it. And truthfully, if court officials are willing to meet with him ahead of the court date, it makes me think that they are, in fact, trying to work out some kind of "deal". As in, [I]OK--After meeting difficult child, Dr. So-and-so, has offered to admit him to an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) for treatment because he feels that difficult child is not competent to stand trial. If you would sign these papers, we can proceed.[/I].... THAT would be very hard for husband to hear about his kid. [I]AND[/I] a reason that a therapist or public defender might have yelled at husband for not taking advantage of the best possible way to help his child. And if they are now scheduling a new round of evaluations with therapists, it is because after some yelling back and forth, husband demanded a second opinion (because, you know, nobody else thinks there are any problems with difficult child). Definitely go to court.... Stay strong. --DaisyF [/QUOTE]
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