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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 302773" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I agree with that. And I definitely don't think the PD or any other court official is recommending that husband lie, especially in court. But, maybe husband is appearing to be at one extreme or the other (ie, either lie for difficult child or not support him at all). If that's the case, the PD is probably going to try to get husband to see that he better stick by his son for his son's sake, but that doesn't mean he is condoning a lie.</p><p></p><p>My gut feeling about your husband is that he really does feel like he can't win for losing. I understand he's got a bunch of people trying to tell him that he's going about things the wrong way, but people aren't agreeing on what they are telling him he should be doing, it appears. He's trying to concentrate on his son right now and probably feeling like he can't please everyone else while he's got this stuff going on. Whether he brought this on himself or not, he's got a lot of pressure and concern on him. Now, I also see that he's got some issues of his own and I'm not thinking that he doesn't need to change some things - I'm just syaing that I don't think he can deal with all of it right now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 302773, member: 3699"] I agree with that. And I definitely don't think the PD or any other court official is recommending that husband lie, especially in court. But, maybe husband is appearing to be at one extreme or the other (ie, either lie for difficult child or not support him at all). If that's the case, the PD is probably going to try to get husband to see that he better stick by his son for his son's sake, but that doesn't mean he is condoning a lie. My gut feeling about your husband is that he really does feel like he can't win for losing. I understand he's got a bunch of people trying to tell him that he's going about things the wrong way, but people aren't agreeing on what they are telling him he should be doing, it appears. He's trying to concentrate on his son right now and probably feeling like he can't please everyone else while he's got this stuff going on. Whether he brought this on himself or not, he's got a lot of pressure and concern on him. Now, I also see that he's got some issues of his own and I'm not thinking that he doesn't need to change some things - I'm just syaing that I don't think he can deal with all of it right now. [/QUOTE]
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