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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 286500" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry. This must be so incredibly difficult for all of you. Sending gentle hugs.</p><p></p><p>If husband is ever speaking seriously about suicide then it is NOT a breach of any trust to have him placed in a hospital. It is saving his life just as surely as running into a burning building to pull him out.</p><p></p><p>I am not sure if talking about this with husband will be a good idea. But it is a good idea for you to be aware of it. Just in case, Know what I mean??</p><p></p><p>I am so very sorry you have to cope with this on top of the death of your friend.</p><p></p><p>Please remember that it is perfectly fine to ask people to do certain things. You may even have to schedule an appointment with yourself at a certain time so that you can cry and fall apart for that hour or however long you schedule it for. It can be a needed break from always being the one to "take care of things". in my opinion you are less likely to have a serious emotional collapse if you do this (the scheduling time to weep and wail and yell at Heaven) rather than if you just keep being there for others and stuffing your emotions so you can function.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry you lost a good friend. Many gentle hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 286500, member: 1233"] I am so sorry. This must be so incredibly difficult for all of you. Sending gentle hugs. If husband is ever speaking seriously about suicide then it is NOT a breach of any trust to have him placed in a hospital. It is saving his life just as surely as running into a burning building to pull him out. I am not sure if talking about this with husband will be a good idea. But it is a good idea for you to be aware of it. Just in case, Know what I mean?? I am so very sorry you have to cope with this on top of the death of your friend. Please remember that it is perfectly fine to ask people to do certain things. You may even have to schedule an appointment with yourself at a certain time so that you can cry and fall apart for that hour or however long you schedule it for. It can be a needed break from always being the one to "take care of things". in my opinion you are less likely to have a serious emotional collapse if you do this (the scheduling time to weep and wail and yell at Heaven) rather than if you just keep being there for others and stuffing your emotions so you can function. I am sorry you lost a good friend. Many gentle hugs. [/QUOTE]
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