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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 90347" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>ant is in jail now for his 4th DUI. (by the way I thought your post meant an IV-intravenous DUI-lmao)</p><p></p><p>in PA you look up DUI laws and there is a chart showing what you get. for ant it meant not less than one year and not more than two in jail along with fines, ordered to DUI school (again-it costs 300.00 each county and he has three already) and he must have an interlock device on the car if and when he ever drives again (couple thousand plus monthly fees to use)</p><p></p><p>each state is different so he will get what our state mandates. </p><p></p><p>ant's public defender said there is no defense for a 4th DUI esp when they had a breathalizer on him. </p><p></p><p>ok given that, remember this, it is not your fault. ant's three yr old son will not see him for a long time too unless I take him to jail to see his dad. not likely at this point. ant did not care enough about Kaleb to stop this madness, why should Kaleb suffer? I know yadda yadda everyone thinks they get help in jail. not so. in jail they are all sorry they did it, but they want another drink asap when they get out except for a small minority of people who truly see the light. </p><p></p><p>your STBex had three other DUIs-are they your fault too? c'mon hon he is an alcoholic. not your fault in any way. now rest up while he is locked up and pull your life together for you and yours. </p><p></p><p>I know I sound tough but remember too that I cried a week this time about ant. I was a mess, could not function. what made me stop crying was knowing that his life was hurting other people. he made selfish choices. I would have never encouraged him to do that. </p><p></p><p>why didnt your STBex just sit at home and drink, the idiot??? let his family worry about him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 90347, member: 97"] ant is in jail now for his 4th DUI. (by the way I thought your post meant an IV-intravenous DUI-lmao) in PA you look up DUI laws and there is a chart showing what you get. for ant it meant not less than one year and not more than two in jail along with fines, ordered to DUI school (again-it costs 300.00 each county and he has three already) and he must have an interlock device on the car if and when he ever drives again (couple thousand plus monthly fees to use) each state is different so he will get what our state mandates. ant's public defender said there is no defense for a 4th DUI esp when they had a breathalizer on him. ok given that, remember this, it is not your fault. ant's three yr old son will not see him for a long time too unless I take him to jail to see his dad. not likely at this point. ant did not care enough about Kaleb to stop this madness, why should Kaleb suffer? I know yadda yadda everyone thinks they get help in jail. not so. in jail they are all sorry they did it, but they want another drink asap when they get out except for a small minority of people who truly see the light. your STBex had three other DUIs-are they your fault too? c'mon hon he is an alcoholic. not your fault in any way. now rest up while he is locked up and pull your life together for you and yours. I know I sound tough but remember too that I cried a week this time about ant. I was a mess, could not function. what made me stop crying was knowing that his life was hurting other people. he made selfish choices. I would have never encouraged him to do that. why didnt your STBex just sit at home and drink, the idiot??? let his family worry about him. [/QUOTE]
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