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Early teen stuff: boys/gifts/oral sex!!!???
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 225792" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>oh boy was hesitant to respond on this one. LOL. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Obviously no one should be taking tips from me on this. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p> </p><p>I think looking back, that one of the biggest points maybe I didnt' drive home even though it was said is that oral sex is still sex in some form. It is, as per my old therapist turned friend almost an acceptable way for girls to please their boyfriends without going "all the way" so to speak. So, with that being said alot of them do not understand that it comes with risks as well emotional, health risks, std's etc.</p><p> </p><p>Also, that their first experience should be one that they can look back on and remember as a nice experience. All of my friends weren't doing it when i was 15. I myself waited, yet my first memory was one that I will treasure and carry with me for years. I think tha'Tourette's Syndrome what we as parents hope to create for them. A good memory, a good decision and one in which they also know all the risks that come with that decision.</p><p> </p><p>For some reason girls do not think that protection is needed in this, yet it is. I wish you luck with this conversation. I just figured maybe I could give you some insight from what I taught my daughter, and maybe points I missed here and there.</p><p> </p><p>I wish you luck I do, it isn't an easy conversation to have yet one that def. needs to happen.</p><p> </p><p>(((Hugs))) i'Tourette's Syndrome not easy being a Mom to a girl at times.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 225792, member: 4514"] oh boy was hesitant to respond on this one. LOL. :) Obviously no one should be taking tips from me on this. :) I think looking back, that one of the biggest points maybe I didnt' drive home even though it was said is that oral sex is still sex in some form. It is, as per my old therapist turned friend almost an acceptable way for girls to please their boyfriends without going "all the way" so to speak. So, with that being said alot of them do not understand that it comes with risks as well emotional, health risks, std's etc. Also, that their first experience should be one that they can look back on and remember as a nice experience. All of my friends weren't doing it when i was 15. I myself waited, yet my first memory was one that I will treasure and carry with me for years. I think tha'Tourette's Syndrome what we as parents hope to create for them. A good memory, a good decision and one in which they also know all the risks that come with that decision. For some reason girls do not think that protection is needed in this, yet it is. I wish you luck with this conversation. I just figured maybe I could give you some insight from what I taught my daughter, and maybe points I missed here and there. I wish you luck I do, it isn't an easy conversation to have yet one that def. needs to happen. (((Hugs))) i'Tourette's Syndrome not easy being a Mom to a girl at times. [/QUOTE]
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