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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 225838" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Oral sex is popular because the old "I'll get pregnant" can't be used as an excuse to not go farther than a young lady is comfortable with. </p><p></p><p>There is a lot of power for a girl to be able to satisfy a young man. Unfortunately, it is misdirected and ends up undermining her own self image and how she is viewed by the teen cliques but for those few minutes and a few minutes after she is bestowing favors on someone who she wants desparately to fall in love with her. Very powerful. </p><p></p><p>We all hope that sex will be a little less prominent in the lives of the next generation, especially high school. It's part and parcel to relationships but it is no more or less important than many other aspects. A little balance is what we need. </p><p></p><p>My hope is that just as this current generation views cigarette smoking in a negative manner (versus us who thought everyone smoked) that they will eventually find that indiscriminate sex is for losers. </p><p></p><p>I agree with finding simple articles to share with daughter or books that have a story that matches your belief system. It's a little less embarassing for a young teen of 12. </p><p></p><p>I'm a big fan of driving the highway with the car doors locked at 70mi/hr and having talks about STD's and/or sex. They can't escape. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/devil.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":devil:" title="devil :devil:" data-shortname=":devil:" />I don't blush and I'm not shy about talking about most things. It is a matter of fact talk. If mom is embarrassed, certainly so will the child. I don't want them to not have a healthy interest and desire for a sexual relationship but to learn the rules and lessons before jumping in. Preparation and thinking is key. </p><p></p><p>It should always be on their terms and not because someone is applying pressure for something that is not theirs to take but a treasure to be given.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 225838, member: 3"] Oral sex is popular because the old "I'll get pregnant" can't be used as an excuse to not go farther than a young lady is comfortable with. There is a lot of power for a girl to be able to satisfy a young man. Unfortunately, it is misdirected and ends up undermining her own self image and how she is viewed by the teen cliques but for those few minutes and a few minutes after she is bestowing favors on someone who she wants desparately to fall in love with her. Very powerful. We all hope that sex will be a little less prominent in the lives of the next generation, especially high school. It's part and parcel to relationships but it is no more or less important than many other aspects. A little balance is what we need. My hope is that just as this current generation views cigarette smoking in a negative manner (versus us who thought everyone smoked) that they will eventually find that indiscriminate sex is for losers. I agree with finding simple articles to share with daughter or books that have a story that matches your belief system. It's a little less embarassing for a young teen of 12. I'm a big fan of driving the highway with the car doors locked at 70mi/hr and having talks about STD's and/or sex. They can't escape. :devil:I don't blush and I'm not shy about talking about most things. It is a matter of fact talk. If mom is embarrassed, certainly so will the child. I don't want them to not have a healthy interest and desire for a sexual relationship but to learn the rules and lessons before jumping in. Preparation and thinking is key. It should always be on their terms and not because someone is applying pressure for something that is not theirs to take but a treasure to be given. [/QUOTE]
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