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<blockquote data-quote="Anaheimfan" data-source="post: 225881" data-attributes="member: 6263"><p>MWM, your best advice would be to talk to your daughter about self-respect, you don't even need to bring sex into the conversation, you can start out talking about what she thinks of herself: Does she see herself as beautiful? Popular? What would she do if she wasn't accepted by a group of people? What does she think her boyfriend wants or thinks? And things like that. And maybe, the conversation will lead to the discussion of sex, oral sex, and etcetera. </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>I am in agreement with Marg. It is, when you get down to it, an issue of respect and self-respect on both parts.</p><p> </p><p>The girls who are willing to get down and do it have little or no self-respect, and the guys who expect, force, tell girls to do it have no respect for them whatsoever. "I love you so much baby, but let me shove my <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/sick.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sick:" title="sick :sick:" data-shortname=":sick:" /> down your throat" yeah....That's REAL love right there.....Anyways, before I get angry and take that one too far...</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>I read an article on this, and it scares the hell out of me. It's like babies having babies..... Apparently one of them was an "initiation" of sorts, where the girl had to uhm...perform for so many guys to get "in". Now for the shocking part, that was a 6TH GRADE GIRL performing it on a bunch of 7TH and 8TH GRADE boys.....6TH and 7TH GRADE!? What in the hell is getting into these kids? You got these poor, naive, innocent girls and these useless ***** punks that expect....Oh My God I could go on forever with all sorts of cuss words, so I'll just let you all finish that sentence. </p><p> </p><p>Way I look at it, is it's bad for kids no matter what. There is NO exucse whatsoever, none in this world. On the other side of the coin, it's not AS bad if the girls are just doing it with their boyfriends--AS A CHOICE MADE BY BOTH OF THEM--and no one else, as opposed to doing it with so many random guys on the basketball team because it's the "cool" thing to do or we gotta show the punks how "awesome" and "hot" they are.</p><p> </p><p>It goes well beyond Sexual Education....The schools will teach safe sex, and preach till their blue in the fance about abstinence. But parents need to do a big part. They need to talk to their kids on a personal level no matter how embarassed either one of them is. Tell'em what's goin on in the real world, talk about their own experiences if they are comfortable, teach their daughters about respecting themselves, and teach their sons how to treat girls RIGHT. </p><p> </p><p>I was raised to treat girls/women like princesses, and I do. Anything that's gone on between me and any of my girlfriends was something we discussed together. I plan to raise any future sons the same way, and if I have a daughter, her mother and I would be drilling into her head self respect, and I'll even warn her boyfriends about my daughter's well-being. [Not to mention a nice, FIRM handshake <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" />]</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Anaheimfan, post: 225881, member: 6263"] MWM, your best advice would be to talk to your daughter about self-respect, you don't even need to bring sex into the conversation, you can start out talking about what she thinks of herself: Does she see herself as beautiful? Popular? What would she do if she wasn't accepted by a group of people? What does she think her boyfriend wants or thinks? And things like that. And maybe, the conversation will lead to the discussion of sex, oral sex, and etcetera. I am in agreement with Marg. It is, when you get down to it, an issue of respect and self-respect on both parts. The girls who are willing to get down and do it have little or no self-respect, and the guys who expect, force, tell girls to do it have no respect for them whatsoever. "I love you so much baby, but let me shove my :sick: down your throat" yeah....That's REAL love right there.....Anyways, before I get angry and take that one too far... I read an article on this, and it scares the hell out of me. It's like babies having babies..... Apparently one of them was an "initiation" of sorts, where the girl had to uhm...perform for so many guys to get "in". Now for the shocking part, that was a 6TH GRADE GIRL performing it on a bunch of 7TH and 8TH GRADE boys.....6TH and 7TH GRADE!? What in the hell is getting into these kids? You got these poor, naive, innocent girls and these useless ***** punks that expect....Oh My God I could go on forever with all sorts of cuss words, so I'll just let you all finish that sentence. Way I look at it, is it's bad for kids no matter what. There is NO exucse whatsoever, none in this world. On the other side of the coin, it's not AS bad if the girls are just doing it with their boyfriends--AS A CHOICE MADE BY BOTH OF THEM--and no one else, as opposed to doing it with so many random guys on the basketball team because it's the "cool" thing to do or we gotta show the punks how "awesome" and "hot" they are. It goes well beyond Sexual Education....The schools will teach safe sex, and preach till their blue in the fance about abstinence. But parents need to do a big part. They need to talk to their kids on a personal level no matter how embarassed either one of them is. Tell'em what's goin on in the real world, talk about their own experiences if they are comfortable, teach their daughters about respecting themselves, and teach their sons how to treat girls RIGHT. I was raised to treat girls/women like princesses, and I do. Anything that's gone on between me and any of my girlfriends was something we discussed together. I plan to raise any future sons the same way, and if I have a daughter, her mother and I would be drilling into her head self respect, and I'll even warn her boyfriends about my daughter's well-being. [Not to mention a nice, FIRM handshake ;)] [/QUOTE]
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