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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 422446" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>You need to stop disciplining Hailey. I know this is going to be impossible - but.........Billie is Haileys Mother. If this is how she chooses to raise her? So be it. The fallout will be hers and Jamies. If you don't like what is going on in their home? Leave. </p><p>It is THEIR home. The one who needed to be put in time out here OBVIOUSLY is Billie, but she's a grown woman, and her style of parenting is at best lacking. When you are not there? This goes on. When you leave? This will go on. While you are there? This is going on. I would ignore that child, just like her Mother does, and if it gets to the point that you can't stand the behavior? Just look at Tony and say "Gpa - time to go we had that thing to do." Then I wouldn't say anything about Hailey or her behavior, I wouldn't say anything to Billie or her NOT parenting her child - I would just leave. If I felt compelled to do so? I may bend down and kiss baby M, and if H was receptive I would only say I love you - but I wouldn't chase her down or say come here and give me a kiss. I'd just leave. </p><p> </p><p>There are plenty of things to do where you are - go do em. Have dinner - stay an hour or two, see your son, your grandson - and leave. Don't upset yourself any further. Putting Halie in time out the few days you're there? Isn't going to help, it's just going to make things WORSE between you and Billie, and make things worse for Jamie when he gets home and it's NOT going to make Halie behave better after you leave or probably while you are there. She is who she is. Her Mother has seen to that. </p><p> </p><p>I hear purple monkeys are up 12 points today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 422446, member: 4964"] You need to stop disciplining Hailey. I know this is going to be impossible - but.........Billie is Haileys Mother. If this is how she chooses to raise her? So be it. The fallout will be hers and Jamies. If you don't like what is going on in their home? Leave. It is THEIR home. The one who needed to be put in time out here OBVIOUSLY is Billie, but she's a grown woman, and her style of parenting is at best lacking. When you are not there? This goes on. When you leave? This will go on. While you are there? This is going on. I would ignore that child, just like her Mother does, and if it gets to the point that you can't stand the behavior? Just look at Tony and say "Gpa - time to go we had that thing to do." Then I wouldn't say anything about Hailey or her behavior, I wouldn't say anything to Billie or her NOT parenting her child - I would just leave. If I felt compelled to do so? I may bend down and kiss baby M, and if H was receptive I would only say I love you - but I wouldn't chase her down or say come here and give me a kiss. I'd just leave. There are plenty of things to do where you are - go do em. Have dinner - stay an hour or two, see your son, your grandson - and leave. Don't upset yourself any further. Putting Halie in time out the few days you're there? Isn't going to help, it's just going to make things WORSE between you and Billie, and make things worse for Jamie when he gets home and it's NOT going to make Halie behave better after you leave or probably while you are there. She is who she is. Her Mother has seen to that. I hear purple monkeys are up 12 points today. [/QUOTE]
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