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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 111839" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Heather, easy child sounds like he's such a great kid - you've done really great! He's maturing and allowing himself to see his father for what he is. </p><p></p><p>My exh used to tell me that one day my daughters would leave me to be with him and that they'd see MY true colors, yadda yadda yadda! He is also still the one person who can drive me insane within 5 minutes. We manage to be civil and even have a laugh or two now, but it wasn't always that way. Ironically, all the things that drive me insane about him are all the things that easy child and difficult child complain to me about him!! Haha. True colors and all that, huh?</p><p></p><p>We also moved away from him and the girls' birthplace. It was the right thing to do. He resented it, but just like your exh, when he lived within 10 minutes of his dds, he never had the time of day for them anyway. His sister in law still resents me for moving away with my girls. We're only 3 hours away - no reason they can't come visit, vice versa. </p><p></p><p>It is what it is and you're doing the right thing. I've sacrificed a lot to meet my dds' needs and I'd do it all over again if I had to. Exh doesn't come through for them all the time, but I will die trying. And kids notice who is there and who has their back and loves them unconditionally. I know it hurts to see K turn his back on easy child and play head games with him, but easy child will be okay. Hugs~</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 111839, member: 2211"] Heather, easy child sounds like he's such a great kid - you've done really great! He's maturing and allowing himself to see his father for what he is. My exh used to tell me that one day my daughters would leave me to be with him and that they'd see MY true colors, yadda yadda yadda! He is also still the one person who can drive me insane within 5 minutes. We manage to be civil and even have a laugh or two now, but it wasn't always that way. Ironically, all the things that drive me insane about him are all the things that easy child and difficult child complain to me about him!! Haha. True colors and all that, huh? We also moved away from him and the girls' birthplace. It was the right thing to do. He resented it, but just like your exh, when he lived within 10 minutes of his dds, he never had the time of day for them anyway. His sister in law still resents me for moving away with my girls. We're only 3 hours away - no reason they can't come visit, vice versa. It is what it is and you're doing the right thing. I've sacrificed a lot to meet my dds' needs and I'd do it all over again if I had to. Exh doesn't come through for them all the time, but I will die trying. And kids notice who is there and who has their back and loves them unconditionally. I know it hurts to see K turn his back on easy child and play head games with him, but easy child will be okay. Hugs~ [/QUOTE]
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