And I am so happy to see her. But why am I sitting here in tears? I have been able to "handle" all of difficult child's behaviors and just kind of write it off I guess. But with easy child here, I can see how bad it is. And, I feel so bad that easy child had to come home to this. I have a loving sweet independent daughter, and one that will likely flunk out of H.S. and is so selfish that no one wants to be around her. And, easy child is already trying so hard with difficult child. She asked her to go shopping today. easy child said she is going to try to talk to her to see if she can figure out what is going on. I guess with easy child home, I cannot pretend that difficult child is doing well, or even OK. It is a major "smack in the face" that difficult child may never do much with her life. How I hope that I am wrong.