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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 237277" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry you have to go through this hurt. I think a month is probably a good length of time for her to maybe start to recover. It really is hard when you are violated this way. As a parent we have a bond with our kids, even the adopted ones. But sibs don't always have that bond, and sometimes they do things to each other that just go beyond what a sibling can live with.</p><p></p><p>I really do think you need some major interventions in place for difficult child, as I don't think the inappropriate urination and soiling problems or the underwear problems are going to go away soon. I think he may be dealing with urges he cannot or willnot face, and that the next few years will be incredibly hard. </p><p></p><p>I do think that the more you can make him do physical chores when he is in trouble the quicker you will get through to him. Rake the leaves, mow the grass, trim hedges, scrub bathtubs and toilets, etc.... All of these involve using more than just the brain to deal with a situation. adn the more senses you can involve the more impact you make on a person.</p><p></p><p>Sending gentle hugs to all of you. How is husband handling all of this?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 237277, member: 1233"] I am sorry you have to go through this hurt. I think a month is probably a good length of time for her to maybe start to recover. It really is hard when you are violated this way. As a parent we have a bond with our kids, even the adopted ones. But sibs don't always have that bond, and sometimes they do things to each other that just go beyond what a sibling can live with. I really do think you need some major interventions in place for difficult child, as I don't think the inappropriate urination and soiling problems or the underwear problems are going to go away soon. I think he may be dealing with urges he cannot or willnot face, and that the next few years will be incredibly hard. I do think that the more you can make him do physical chores when he is in trouble the quicker you will get through to him. Rake the leaves, mow the grass, trim hedges, scrub bathtubs and toilets, etc.... All of these involve using more than just the brain to deal with a situation. adn the more senses you can involve the more impact you make on a person. Sending gentle hugs to all of you. How is husband handling all of this? [/QUOTE]
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