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easy child says I don't want relationship with difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 65362" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Beth,</p><p></p><p>My concern in all you're telling me is that SW is asking for something that easy child cannot & most likely should not have to do at this point in her young life.</p><p></p><p>What is SWs "agenda" behind getting easy child on board? Is it a treatment plan written up with-o informed consent by you or your easy child? The problem, as I see it, isn't easy child - it's difficult child's ability to write that letter & accept however easy child responds.</p><p></p><p>None of this is on easy child's shoulders.</p><p></p><p>Having said that, while both kt & wm, have letters of apology they have written to one another; have worked & not worked toward a relationship of sorts there are certain relationships that may be doomed to being toxic.</p><p></p><p>in my humble opinion, abuse, of any type, puts a relationship in the "toxic" zone. Our team doesn't expect or necessarily want the tweedles to have a sibling relationship. Our goal is to teach them to be in the same room with one another with-o disintegrating to that ugly picture of survival from bio home. At best, I would expect them to see one another on an occasional basis (like now) & let it go.</p><p></p><p>It just seems that SW has some kind of "discharge" agenda based on PCs response to this letter. Am I off base here?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 65362, member: 393"] Beth, My concern in all you're telling me is that SW is asking for something that easy child cannot & most likely should not have to do at this point in her young life. What is SWs "agenda" behind getting easy child on board? Is it a treatment plan written up with-o informed consent by you or your easy child? The problem, as I see it, isn't easy child - it's difficult child's ability to write that letter & accept however easy child responds. None of this is on easy child's shoulders. Having said that, while both kt & wm, have letters of apology they have written to one another; have worked & not worked toward a relationship of sorts there are certain relationships that may be doomed to being toxic. in my humble opinion, abuse, of any type, puts a relationship in the "toxic" zone. Our team doesn't expect or necessarily want the tweedles to have a sibling relationship. Our goal is to teach them to be in the same room with one another with-o disintegrating to that ugly picture of survival from bio home. At best, I would expect them to see one another on an occasional basis (like now) & let it go. It just seems that SW has some kind of "discharge" agenda based on PCs response to this letter. Am I off base here? [/QUOTE]
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