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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 389813" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p> </p><p>it's ok, seems like our speciality in this house to be honest. between the 5 kids there is absolutely never a time when calm reigns here. it's unfortunate yet you make choices and boom 5 kids equals in our world chaos at times.</p><p> </p><p>wish i could get her out. years ago when she first met him and went astray husband and i were looking into a wilderness camp for her. just figured ok let's get her out, due to the fact her behavior really does change so very much when she is with him. she truly becomes aggressive verbally and even physically threatening.</p><p> </p><p>so, long story short husband and i couldn't get the loan we applied for. those places are a fortune. at the time we wound up bringing in services to help he handle her. she ran away with this kid for a day or so. etc. i called cops ea. time she walked out and i had grounded her. did all the things i was supposed. yet she wouldnt' go to support groups, or attend therapy anymore, or really work their program and we had no choice due to her age to truly do anything. she's a great person truly just one in which makes bad choices.</p><p> </p><p>she isnt' talking to me today. i told her tmrw when husband is off than her and i will go take a drive and talk about it. which i'm sure will go nowhere quick. shes' super defiant. i know just what i need when handlilng my youngest overwhelming problems right now.</p><p> </p><p>personally i can't wait till i'm 60 and kids are gone and it's just him and i. i said maybe than we can watch movies uninterrupted, go for dinner, go riding, golfing etc. i'm really looking forward to that! love love my kids yet its' been a really really hard few years for us.</p><p> </p><p>thanks for the advice. we'll c how it goes. can't just not punish her because than it shows ok you can treat your mother that way which is more my issue right now. as far as the kids goes i wont' be able to knowing myself as well as i do. say ok have a great night as he picks her up outside my house. na not me!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 389813, member: 4514"] hi, it's ok, seems like our speciality in this house to be honest. between the 5 kids there is absolutely never a time when calm reigns here. it's unfortunate yet you make choices and boom 5 kids equals in our world chaos at times. wish i could get her out. years ago when she first met him and went astray husband and i were looking into a wilderness camp for her. just figured ok let's get her out, due to the fact her behavior really does change so very much when she is with him. she truly becomes aggressive verbally and even physically threatening. so, long story short husband and i couldn't get the loan we applied for. those places are a fortune. at the time we wound up bringing in services to help he handle her. she ran away with this kid for a day or so. etc. i called cops ea. time she walked out and i had grounded her. did all the things i was supposed. yet she wouldnt' go to support groups, or attend therapy anymore, or really work their program and we had no choice due to her age to truly do anything. she's a great person truly just one in which makes bad choices. she isnt' talking to me today. i told her tmrw when husband is off than her and i will go take a drive and talk about it. which i'm sure will go nowhere quick. shes' super defiant. i know just what i need when handlilng my youngest overwhelming problems right now. personally i can't wait till i'm 60 and kids are gone and it's just him and i. i said maybe than we can watch movies uninterrupted, go for dinner, go riding, golfing etc. i'm really looking forward to that! love love my kids yet its' been a really really hard few years for us. thanks for the advice. we'll c how it goes. can't just not punish her because than it shows ok you can treat your mother that way which is more my issue right now. as far as the kids goes i wont' be able to knowing myself as well as i do. say ok have a great night as he picks her up outside my house. na not me! [/QUOTE]
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