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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 272785" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>LOL!</p><p>I just re-read my sentence about it being "our responsibility," and realize it sounded like it was our responsibility to pile emotional carp on easy child. </p><p>I'm glad you all understood what I meant.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/redface.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":redface:" title="redface :redface:" data-shortname=":redface:" /></p><p> </p><p>The session with-difficult child was okay but it went very fast. I had to leave early and husband came in late and then finished up, so I still don't know exactly what they finished up with. difficult child did admit that he hated it when I gestured with-my hands and put one hand, palm facing the floor, above my head, and the other, palm facing the floor, at chest level, to indicate he was below us. He got very upset and couldn't explain it, so I asked if it made him feel like a little kid and he said yes. He asked if we could just say that we're in charge. </p><p>Not sure what's up with-that. I think the therapist may want an entire session alone with-difficult child to figure out why he's so set on being in charge. I realize he's wired differently but until we figure out where he's coming from, I don't think we'll make much more progress.</p><p>I think it's purely emotional and not based on logic. But then, emotions are based on thoughts, so we have to figure out the flaw in his thinking and correct it. (I hope that makes sense.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 272785, member: 3419"] LOL! I just re-read my sentence about it being "our responsibility," and realize it sounded like it was our responsibility to pile emotional carp on easy child. I'm glad you all understood what I meant.:blushing: The session with-difficult child was okay but it went very fast. I had to leave early and husband came in late and then finished up, so I still don't know exactly what they finished up with. difficult child did admit that he hated it when I gestured with-my hands and put one hand, palm facing the floor, above my head, and the other, palm facing the floor, at chest level, to indicate he was below us. He got very upset and couldn't explain it, so I asked if it made him feel like a little kid and he said yes. He asked if we could just say that we're in charge. Not sure what's up with-that. I think the therapist may want an entire session alone with-difficult child to figure out why he's so set on being in charge. I realize he's wired differently but until we figure out where he's coming from, I don't think we'll make much more progress. I think it's purely emotional and not based on logic. But then, emotions are based on thoughts, so we have to figure out the flaw in his thinking and correct it. (I hope that makes sense.) [/QUOTE]
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