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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 433339" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I wouldn't do it. I thought that prom was already come and passed anyway. She's using this because you want it so much for her. How many times did you tell her you woouldn't buy the dress if she did ABC and she did it anyway? Coming back and putting all these things in place, including the rewards and benefits, is not the way it's supposed to work, Jen. you should be telling her what she would have to do to earn all that back. Decfiding she wants to come back and telling you what you want to hear and promising that she'll do ABC in the future doesn't warrant you handing her the rewards and benefits before she actually follows thru. Basicly, you're giving her everything back just because she's agreeing to come back and tell you what you want to hear. She's still in control, not you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 433339, member: 3699"] I wouldn't do it. I thought that prom was already come and passed anyway. She's using this because you want it so much for her. How many times did you tell her you woouldn't buy the dress if she did ABC and she did it anyway? Coming back and putting all these things in place, including the rewards and benefits, is not the way it's supposed to work, Jen. you should be telling her what she would have to do to earn all that back. Decfiding she wants to come back and telling you what you want to hear and promising that she'll do ABC in the future doesn't warrant you handing her the rewards and benefits before she actually follows thru. Basicly, you're giving her everything back just because she's agreeing to come back and tell you what you want to hear. She's still in control, not you. [/QUOTE]
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