good morning hi, so easy child called yesterday while we were out with-the kids...... she said i want to talk to you, i think it's time i came home. So, I didn't say much was on a beach with-the 3 youngest ones. So, she'll be by today after school to talk. difficult child has to clean her disgusting room, so easy child and i will sit on lawn under tree. First question i have is: What has changed with-you that you think you can come home now after living the "high" life and respect me and the rules of our home? We'll c how it goes, I kinda knew it was coming. I do think her returning can work although i know many here say it cannot. Yet to be honest it has to be a "certain" way. Nothing will ever be perfect in my life, yet calm is what i'm after. I will not go backwards into the world she created before. first thing husband said was I don't want her back if she's going to stress you. So, we'll c she may not like what i have to say regarding her return, rules, my new attitude and may decide to remain where she is. I think there's a mix to the wanting to return, she has a ft job now during the summer and no way to get there, she also will be graduating from what I understand and also wants a prom dress for prom, and she basically needs us. Yet i told husband there is no way i'm waking up at 7 each day in summer to drive her to work, I won't do it. I said i need my sleep was looking forward to a more relaxed schedule in the summer due to no tutors and pressure. I said maybe i'll offer to drive her 2 days and the rest she can ride her bike. It's quite far away. husband said she can't do that I said shes' a healthy girl, she made the choices she did otherwise she would of had a car by now. She still has to find her way through fixing all the damage and part of that is mom will not be getting up early to drive you.