good morning
hi, so easy child called yesterday while we were out with-the kids...... she said i want to talk to you, i think it's time i came home.
So, I didn't say much was on a beach with-the 3 youngest ones. So, she'll be by today after school to talk. difficult child has to clean her disgusting room, so easy child and i will sit on lawn under tree.
First question i have is: What has changed with-you that you think you can come home now after living the "high" life and respect me and the rules of our home?
We'll c how it goes, I kinda knew it was coming. I do think her returning can work although i know many here say it cannot. Yet to be honest it has to be a "certain" way.
Nothing will ever be perfect in my life, yet calm is what i'm after. I will not go backwards into the world she created before. first thing husband said was I don't want her back if she's going to stress you.
So, we'll c she may not like what i have to say regarding her return, rules, my new attitude and may decide to remain where she is.
I think there's a mix to the wanting to return, she has a ft job now during the summer and no way to get there, she also will be graduating from what I understand and also wants a prom dress for prom, and she basically needs us.
Yet i told husband there is no way i'm waking up at 7 each day in summer to drive her to work, I won't do it. I said i need my sleep was looking forward to a more relaxed schedule in the summer due to no tutors and pressure. I said maybe i'll offer to drive her 2 days and the rest she can ride her bike. It's quite far away. husband said she can't do that I said shes' a healthy girl, she made the choices she did otherwise she would of had a car by now.
She still has to find her way through fixing all the damage and part of that is mom will not be getting up early to drive you.
hi, so easy child called yesterday while we were out with-the kids...... she said i want to talk to you, i think it's time i came home.
So, I didn't say much was on a beach with-the 3 youngest ones. So, she'll be by today after school to talk. difficult child has to clean her disgusting room, so easy child and i will sit on lawn under tree.
First question i have is: What has changed with-you that you think you can come home now after living the "high" life and respect me and the rules of our home?
We'll c how it goes, I kinda knew it was coming. I do think her returning can work although i know many here say it cannot. Yet to be honest it has to be a "certain" way.
Nothing will ever be perfect in my life, yet calm is what i'm after. I will not go backwards into the world she created before. first thing husband said was I don't want her back if she's going to stress you.
So, we'll c she may not like what i have to say regarding her return, rules, my new attitude and may decide to remain where she is.
I think there's a mix to the wanting to return, she has a ft job now during the summer and no way to get there, she also will be graduating from what I understand and also wants a prom dress for prom, and she basically needs us.
Yet i told husband there is no way i'm waking up at 7 each day in summer to drive her to work, I won't do it. I said i need my sleep was looking forward to a more relaxed schedule in the summer due to no tutors and pressure. I said maybe i'll offer to drive her 2 days and the rest she can ride her bike. It's quite far away. husband said she can't do that I said shes' a healthy girl, she made the choices she did otherwise she would of had a car by now.
She still has to find her way through fixing all the damage and part of that is mom will not be getting up early to drive you.