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<blockquote data-quote="FlipFlops" data-source="post: 283655"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: darkorchid">Thanks Susie and WipedOut. Susie you gave lots advice and praised me on my "wisdom"<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/redface.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":redface:" title="redface :redface:" data-shortname=":redface:" />. You will be doubly "impressed" that I have already got some of those things in the works. I actually start my counseling with a local domestic violence center this afternoon. When I did my intake a couple of weeks ago we discussed the possibility of counseling for other PCs. I will proceed with that now as well. CPS, I have been investigated by them 2-3 times before. The first was just a pain in the booty neighbor. It was dropped. Second time school had to call because of bruises difficult child reported to them. Still had a good relationship with school at that time and they faxed me what they sent in and pointed out that they only did it because of legal obligations. After CPS talked with me and stuff they were actually trying to help me place difficult child. He was too young for all the places they told me about and I got tired of them giving me a number, I call, get rejected, call CPS back, and start again. I no longer have any fear of CPS. I have the paper trail from h*ll.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">We are working with the new Mental Health Court and have monthly meetings with the judge, weekly meetings with a probation officer and an MST person. I already tried to call the PO and next week is our meeting with the judge. The goal of the Mental Health Court and MST is to keep the child in the home. Working with them had been my choice and I had been hopeful about it. But, I think we are past that. Hopefully they will look at this and see we are not giving up and had not meant to waste their time and funding, but that difficult child needs something more than we can provide. For now I don't think I am going to just set up the counseling for PCs. Camp is around the corner and that will buy some more time to finalize placement out of the home. We are working with a couple of schools right now. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="color: #9932cc">Also, along with the shutting down, little easy child has started to be too attentive to me. I know that doesn't sound like a bad thing exactly, but I think he is too worried about my emotional state. The last two times he was going to go to grandma's it was like he looked at me wondering if I could handle things without his support. Had I said I didn't want him to go he would not have. I do not want him to carry me as an additional burden. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="FlipFlops, post: 283655"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=darkorchid]Thanks Susie and WipedOut. Susie you gave lots advice and praised me on my "wisdom":blushing:. You will be doubly "impressed" that I have already got some of those things in the works. I actually start my counseling with a local domestic violence center this afternoon. When I did my intake a couple of weeks ago we discussed the possibility of counseling for other PCs. I will proceed with that now as well. CPS, I have been investigated by them 2-3 times before. The first was just a pain in the booty neighbor. It was dropped. Second time school had to call because of bruises difficult child reported to them. Still had a good relationship with school at that time and they faxed me what they sent in and pointed out that they only did it because of legal obligations. After CPS talked with me and stuff they were actually trying to help me place difficult child. He was too young for all the places they told me about and I got tired of them giving me a number, I call, get rejected, call CPS back, and start again. I no longer have any fear of CPS. I have the paper trail from h*ll.[/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]We are working with the new Mental Health Court and have monthly meetings with the judge, weekly meetings with a probation officer and an MST person. I already tried to call the PO and next week is our meeting with the judge. The goal of the Mental Health Court and MST is to keep the child in the home. Working with them had been my choice and I had been hopeful about it. But, I think we are past that. Hopefully they will look at this and see we are not giving up and had not meant to waste their time and funding, but that difficult child needs something more than we can provide. For now I don't think I am going to just set up the counseling for PCs. Camp is around the corner and that will buy some more time to finalize placement out of the home. We are working with a couple of schools right now. [/COLOR][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=#9932cc]Also, along with the shutting down, little easy child has started to be too attentive to me. I know that doesn't sound like a bad thing exactly, but I think he is too worried about my emotional state. The last two times he was going to go to grandma's it was like he looked at me wondering if I could handle things without his support. Had I said I didn't want him to go he would not have. I do not want him to carry me as an additional burden. [/COLOR][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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