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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 421222"><p>ML..you have it right. I have said that to my boys forever, reminding them to ALWAYS be my son.</p><p> </p><p>I did have lunch with brides mother. Made me very sad. However I could of been over sensitive. It was the 3rd anniversary of my mothers death. I was feeling sad. She is inviting 30 people to the wedding shower. Her mother, her mother in law, aunts, cousins....etc. All of my aunts have passed away. My cousins I wouldn't know if they were standing next to me. And no parents or in-law's. Two sisters 75 and 165 miles away. Wedding is small and I was told I could only invite one or two friends after my family. My family is spread out and don't know if they would even come.</p><p> </p><p>Then I hear that brides parents "drop" in at easy child's often. I don't. Have never even been invited over. He drives semi cross country and isn't home often. I respect the time he has with his future wife, and don't want to impose. Bride has a sister same age as difficult child. And is a major difficult child. Found out everything I do, or say goes directly back to easy child. And difficult child was hanging out with difficult child sister,,,,everything they did went directly back to easy child. </p><p> </p><p>I went and paid for the hall (doesn't include meal). Don't know if brides family is paying for anything. They are much better off than we are. Don't think easy child would tell me if they were paying for anything.</p><p> </p><p>I was a single mom until easy child was 9. So he is very close and special to me since it was just the two of us for so long. Just feeling sad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 421222"] ML..you have it right. I have said that to my boys forever, reminding them to ALWAYS be my son. I did have lunch with brides mother. Made me very sad. However I could of been over sensitive. It was the 3rd anniversary of my mothers death. I was feeling sad. She is inviting 30 people to the wedding shower. Her mother, her mother in law, aunts, cousins....etc. All of my aunts have passed away. My cousins I wouldn't know if they were standing next to me. And no parents or in-law's. Two sisters 75 and 165 miles away. Wedding is small and I was told I could only invite one or two friends after my family. My family is spread out and don't know if they would even come. Then I hear that brides parents "drop" in at easy child's often. I don't. Have never even been invited over. He drives semi cross country and isn't home often. I respect the time he has with his future wife, and don't want to impose. Bride has a sister same age as difficult child. And is a major difficult child. Found out everything I do, or say goes directly back to easy child. And difficult child was hanging out with difficult child sister,,,,everything they did went directly back to easy child. I went and paid for the hall (doesn't include meal). Don't know if brides family is paying for anything. They are much better off than we are. Don't think easy child would tell me if they were paying for anything. I was a single mom until easy child was 9. So he is very close and special to me since it was just the two of us for so long. Just feeling sad. [/QUOTE]
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