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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 438919" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">If you've all agreed to split the costs then you state what you've allotted towards the shower and wedding and that's it. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">No, you cannot help set up, but you may be able to help clean up - at your convenience!</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">What color is mother of the bride's dress? Okay, once you know, you pick a lighter or darker shade and be done with it. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Champagne at a shower? Maybe if it is a brunch and the champagne is mixed in a mimosa, yeesh. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Your son is being pushed around, treating you like a third hand cousin and that's not nice. And your soon to be daughter in law is rude, just like her mother. On the other hand, it could be that they are both being bulldozed by the mother, in which case, they both need to behave like that adults they are pretending to be and man up. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">An option for those traveling the long distance with their children is to set up some kind of babysitting for the duration of the wedding. A lot of people do that nowadays. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Listen, kjs, you need to care for your health and prioritize what you can and can't do. The wedding WILL happen and it will be a nice affair regardless of all this BS. Let the BS go and just go about your plans. What a freakin nuisance! I hope you and your son are able to reconcile your hurt feelings at some point.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">I hope my daughters elope, or, better yet, never marry. Life is so much simpler that way. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Maybe you should send them a book on wedding etiquette anonymously! I'm so sorry you feel so badly, you shouldn't. Big hugs.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 438919, member: 2211"] [COLOR=#000080][SIZE=2]If you've all agreed to split the costs then you state what you've allotted towards the shower and wedding and that's it. No, you cannot help set up, but you may be able to help clean up - at your convenience! What color is mother of the bride's dress? Okay, once you know, you pick a lighter or darker shade and be done with it. Champagne at a shower? Maybe if it is a brunch and the champagne is mixed in a mimosa, yeesh. Your son is being pushed around, treating you like a third hand cousin and that's not nice. And your soon to be daughter in law is rude, just like her mother. On the other hand, it could be that they are both being bulldozed by the mother, in which case, they both need to behave like that adults they are pretending to be and man up. An option for those traveling the long distance with their children is to set up some kind of babysitting for the duration of the wedding. A lot of people do that nowadays. Listen, kjs, you need to care for your health and prioritize what you can and can't do. The wedding WILL happen and it will be a nice affair regardless of all this BS. Let the BS go and just go about your plans. What a freakin nuisance! I hope you and your son are able to reconcile your hurt feelings at some point. I hope my daughters elope, or, better yet, never marry. Life is so much simpler that way. Maybe you should send them a book on wedding etiquette anonymously! I'm so sorry you feel so badly, you shouldn't. Big hugs.[/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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