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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 483712" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Warning: Personal Pet Peeve!</p><p></p><p>From my own experience (multi-generational)...</p><p>Too often, we see a problem and leap to an intervention. </p><p>BEFORE we really get to the bottom of it.</p><p>And therefore... its only blind luck if something actually works.</p><p></p><p>FIRST you have to get to the real rock bottom. (see note below)</p><p>THEN you can figure out what interventions, accommodations and/or medications are going to help.</p><p></p><p>BUT.. **note**</p><p>There can be multiple layers, and lots of interim solutions, while you work your way to the bottom.</p><p>This takes TIME. Lots of TIME.</p><p>And a few lucky breaks along the way (like landing the right doctors etc.!)</p><p></p><p>So... most of the time we have to start with gut feel and blind stabs in the dark.</p><p>But... </p><p>Just because something takes the edge off, doesn't make it THE answer.</p><p>If the whole picture isn't adding up...</p><p>KEEP DIGGING.</p><p></p><p>(took us over 10 years)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 483712, member: 11791"] Warning: Personal Pet Peeve! From my own experience (multi-generational)... Too often, we see a problem and leap to an intervention. BEFORE we really get to the bottom of it. And therefore... its only blind luck if something actually works. FIRST you have to get to the real rock bottom. (see note below) THEN you can figure out what interventions, accommodations and/or medications are going to help. BUT.. **note** There can be multiple layers, and lots of interim solutions, while you work your way to the bottom. This takes TIME. Lots of TIME. And a few lucky breaks along the way (like landing the right doctors etc.!) So... most of the time we have to start with gut feel and blind stabs in the dark. But... Just because something takes the edge off, doesn't make it THE answer. If the whole picture isn't adding up... KEEP DIGGING. (took us over 10 years) [/QUOTE]
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