Elisem, I was just wondering how it was going since it's after Christmas - Have things calmed down any? Let us know okay? Your first post was pretty powerful- I think the level of frustration you were experiencing was understandably off the charts - but we were concerned about the plywood on the windows thing - and the lock on the door, and canceling Christmas - Just check in and let us know how it went. We don't judge lest we be judged - just trying to help. Sounds like you could use us right now? Star ps if you don't feel like posting at least PM a moderator or me or someone and let us know you and your family are okay!