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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 499101" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>You know what you need to do. Once there they will help you sort it out with husband further. Just do it. The life lessons you are teaching your kids to care for themselves for the health of your whole family are invaluable. It will be a shock, and it seems maybe a little bit of it understandably so if you are doing such a good job of hiding things. But that is what you need to share. That you understand he wont be able to wrap his head around it because you have been pretending and just doing your best to hang on by your finger nails and now that you are in a phase of treatment that is really pushing your buttons you need extra help to get past this hump. </p><p></p><p>Hub will get over it. IF he doesn't... well then that is more to talk about in counseling because those underneath issues drive us to continue in these kinds of unhealthy coping behaviors. </p><p></p><p>You are making a good choice here... follow your beliefs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 499101, member: 12886"] You know what you need to do. Once there they will help you sort it out with husband further. Just do it. The life lessons you are teaching your kids to care for themselves for the health of your whole family are invaluable. It will be a shock, and it seems maybe a little bit of it understandably so if you are doing such a good job of hiding things. But that is what you need to share. That you understand he wont be able to wrap his head around it because you have been pretending and just doing your best to hang on by your finger nails and now that you are in a phase of treatment that is really pushing your buttons you need extra help to get past this hump. Hub will get over it. IF he doesn't... well then that is more to talk about in counseling because those underneath issues drive us to continue in these kinds of unhealthy coping behaviors. You are making a good choice here... follow your beliefs. [/QUOTE]
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