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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 499113" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>It's wonderful that you recognize the need for more and better care and are willing to what it takes to get it. And it's wonderful that you realize you've been pretending with H and that this needs to stop. Those realizations are huge, now it is time to act on them.</p><p></p><p>Take care of you, put your health and well being first. When we do that, of course it causes some discomfort to those who are used to us doing it all and being so capable. But their discomfort is secondary to your good health. </p><p></p><p>I know for me it's also very difficult to ask for help or to allow my H and kids know that I'm struggling. Usually by the time I fall apart, I've been suffering for a while and it shocks them all. H is clearly uncomfortable when I'm crying or needy, but oh well. </p><p></p><p>Big hugs, put on your armor and bring H up to speed-full disclosure. You can do this, you've already come so far. We believe in you! xo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 499113, member: 2211"] It's wonderful that you recognize the need for more and better care and are willing to what it takes to get it. And it's wonderful that you realize you've been pretending with H and that this needs to stop. Those realizations are huge, now it is time to act on them. Take care of you, put your health and well being first. When we do that, of course it causes some discomfort to those who are used to us doing it all and being so capable. But their discomfort is secondary to your good health. I know for me it's also very difficult to ask for help or to allow my H and kids know that I'm struggling. Usually by the time I fall apart, I've been suffering for a while and it shocks them all. H is clearly uncomfortable when I'm crying or needy, but oh well. Big hugs, put on your armor and bring H up to speed-full disclosure. You can do this, you've already come so far. We believe in you! xo [/QUOTE]
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