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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 22188" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>I am sorry about the situation , I hope it is only a bump in the road and things will move in the right direction. You are right about the ultimatum ,if boyfriend thinks he has you in his pocket , he is free to do what he pleases. Every one here has introduced different perspectives and in the end each of us has to weigh up the pluses and minuses to stay in a relationship. I think it is important to see the big picture of a person. Often an incident , no matter how bad can cloud our vision. From your posts , boyfriend seems a positive personality.</p><p></p><p>Here is a short story , I don't know if it is relevant here </p><p>There was a kind king whom the people loved and his tyrant chief of staff = whom the people hated and were terrified of him. They decided to change roles , the king began to terrorize and the chief of staff became compassionate and kind. What did the people say ? </p><p></p><p></p><p>The said the chief of staff was not so bad after all and the king was really not kind.</p><p></p><p>Sending prayers in your direction for healing of the relationship.</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 22188, member: 10"] Hi, I am sorry about the situation , I hope it is only a bump in the road and things will move in the right direction. You are right about the ultimatum ,if boyfriend thinks he has you in his pocket , he is free to do what he pleases. Every one here has introduced different perspectives and in the end each of us has to weigh up the pluses and minuses to stay in a relationship. I think it is important to see the big picture of a person. Often an incident , no matter how bad can cloud our vision. From your posts , boyfriend seems a positive personality. Here is a short story , I don't know if it is relevant here There was a kind king whom the people loved and his tyrant chief of staff = whom the people hated and were terrified of him. They decided to change roles , the king began to terrorize and the chief of staff became compassionate and kind. What did the people say ? The said the chief of staff was not so bad after all and the king was really not kind. Sending prayers in your direction for healing of the relationship. Allan [/QUOTE]
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