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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 22360" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Janet, there are many here who stuck it out with a mate who had an addiction or a daliance or whatever boundary that was crossed. Not all but many. They weighed the plus and minus and worked on it. It was their choice, Of course, there had to be an effort to improve. The loss of that person or the giving up on the relationship wasn't the right move for them at that time. Would they walk into a marriage or long term committment knowing what they know? Probably not. All I was saying is that if he has apologized and agreed to not involve himself with another woman romantically then what joy he has brought you in the last 3 yrs can adapt and continue to grow.</p><p></p><p>If he has a cheating heart then nothing you do or say or he can say will make that change and you will be happy to be rid of him. </p><p></p><p>All I offered was a different viewpoint. I assumed that when you posted your story that you wanted different opinions and experiences, so that you could make the best decision for yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 22360, member: 3"] Janet, there are many here who stuck it out with a mate who had an addiction or a daliance or whatever boundary that was crossed. Not all but many. They weighed the plus and minus and worked on it. It was their choice, Of course, there had to be an effort to improve. The loss of that person or the giving up on the relationship wasn't the right move for them at that time. Would they walk into a marriage or long term committment knowing what they know? Probably not. All I was saying is that if he has apologized and agreed to not involve himself with another woman romantically then what joy he has brought you in the last 3 yrs can adapt and continue to grow. If he has a cheating heart then nothing you do or say or he can say will make that change and you will be happy to be rid of him. All I offered was a different viewpoint. I assumed that when you posted your story that you wanted different opinions and experiences, so that you could make the best decision for yourself. [/QUOTE]
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