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<blockquote data-quote="ScentofCedar" data-source="post: 22594" data-attributes="member: 3353"><p>I would do the same. Only I think you might try to look at this month as a time of preparation for who you will become as you progress beyond this time.</p><p></p><p>And maybe, let this month be a time to cherish what you and boyfriend did have, once.</p><p></p><p>The thing is, it really has nothing to do with boyfriend or the other woman.</p><p></p><p>It has to do with you, and with who you feel you are becoming through this relationship. </p><p></p><p>If boyfriend can no longer bring you feelings of joy and peace and possibility, if the laughter has become forced and you are continually second-guessing yourself, perhaps it is time you moved on into a relationship where those things are yours for the sharing.</p><p></p><p>There really is no reason to settle for less than that.</p><p></p><p>We are talking about your life, here.</p><p></p><p>I agree that you sound stronger, Janet.</p><p></p><p>Know that I wish you well.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ScentofCedar, post: 22594, member: 3353"] I would do the same. Only I think you might try to look at this month as a time of preparation for who you will become as you progress beyond this time. And maybe, let this month be a time to cherish what you and boyfriend did have, once. The thing is, it really has nothing to do with boyfriend or the other woman. It has to do with you, and with who you feel you are becoming through this relationship. If boyfriend can no longer bring you feelings of joy and peace and possibility, if the laughter has become forced and you are continually second-guessing yourself, perhaps it is time you moved on into a relationship where those things are yours for the sharing. There really is no reason to settle for less than that. We are talking about your life, here. I agree that you sound stronger, Janet. Know that I wish you well. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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