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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752041" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>He is expecting a lot of money. And he is probably lying. Does he ever tell you the truth? Ever? Does he have a history of keeping jobs? I don't believe him just like I could not believe my daughter.</p><p></p><p>Did he give you a company name, address, person who interviewed him, detailed description of the job? Hours? Something you can check.</p><p></p><p>Kay would go ballistic if I asked for details because she was lying. Your son will tell the truth or get nothing from me. But If it were me, where I am now, I would not do it, not believe or trust it. He has not changed. He is still abusing you. Horrible names! And why would he be able to land a good 40 hour a week job with no resume?</p><p></p><p>You need to do what you do, but without details I would say no and assume that Kay wanted cash for drugs. And your son probably does too. Yes, I am cynical if the kids give us no reason not to be. All our money never helps them. They don't use it to get a leg up. They lie. They buy pot or heroin or alcohol. We go broke. They swear at us. Rinse. Repeat.</p><p></p><p>The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Doesn't happen. Wish it did.</p><p></p><p>I hate to answer this way. But I have learned to speak my mind. And I don't trust kids who never were trustworthy and who abuse us for loving them. Why isn't he happy for landing this alleged job and why doesn't he act nicely if he in any way is ready to change? I think he is the same.</p><p></p><p>On the nth percent chance he is actually being honest, which is a stretch, he can park his car closer to this job. He doesn't need to stay a town away. All in all, I think it sounds suspicious.</p><p></p><p>God bless you whatever you do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752041, member: 23706"] He is expecting a lot of money. And he is probably lying. Does he ever tell you the truth? Ever? Does he have a history of keeping jobs? I don't believe him just like I could not believe my daughter. Did he give you a company name, address, person who interviewed him, detailed description of the job? Hours? Something you can check. Kay would go ballistic if I asked for details because she was lying. Your son will tell the truth or get nothing from me. But If it were me, where I am now, I would not do it, not believe or trust it. He has not changed. He is still abusing you. Horrible names! And why would he be able to land a good 40 hour a week job with no resume? You need to do what you do, but without details I would say no and assume that Kay wanted cash for drugs. And your son probably does too. Yes, I am cynical if the kids give us no reason not to be. All our money never helps them. They don't use it to get a leg up. They lie. They buy pot or heroin or alcohol. We go broke. They swear at us. Rinse. Repeat. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Doesn't happen. Wish it did. I hate to answer this way. But I have learned to speak my mind. And I don't trust kids who never were trustworthy and who abuse us for loving them. Why isn't he happy for landing this alleged job and why doesn't he act nicely if he in any way is ready to change? I think he is the same. On the nth percent chance he is actually being honest, which is a stretch, he can park his car closer to this job. He doesn't need to stay a town away. All in all, I think it sounds suspicious. God bless you whatever you do. [/QUOTE]
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