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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 752066" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>You know he has not changed. You knew it before you opened that email. </p><p></p><p>I think that a changed son will not arrive through an email. How he will arrive, I'm not sure. </p><p></p><p>But I guess I think that the love we seek is ultimately not in these pods, not in these people. I am coming to believe that for me, it will not come from anything external, but in coming into relationship with something in myself, that heretofore has been insufficiently expressed.</p><p></p><p>I think for me I put my son's name on this ineffable feeling or yearning. But what happens is that children grow up and they no longer want to be responsible to carry their mother's deep need and yearning. </p><p></p><p>I think this is part of their anger and their power over us. This is hard stuff. At least it is for me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 752066, member: 18958"] You know he has not changed. You knew it before you opened that email. I think that a changed son will not arrive through an email. How he will arrive, I'm not sure. But I guess I think that the love we seek is ultimately not in these pods, not in these people. I am coming to believe that for me, it will not come from anything external, but in coming into relationship with something in myself, that heretofore has been insufficiently expressed. I think for me I put my son's name on this ineffable feeling or yearning. But what happens is that children grow up and they no longer want to be responsible to carry their mother's deep need and yearning. I think this is part of their anger and their power over us. This is hard stuff. At least it is for me. [/QUOTE]
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