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End of my rope...I want nothing more to do with him
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 191351" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>There are a few huge triggers for me in my life. One of which is my mother. She was my main abuser in my life. I have been in therapy for the last several years to try and work through that. No one...but no one...had better ever compare me to her because I have worked too damned hard to convince myself that I AM NOT MY MOTHER! I am just now getting to the point where I can say to myself that I am not a worthless piece of you know what because that is what she always told me. I dont need someone I gave birth to undoing what I have worked so hard to overcome. I wont allow it. </p><p></p><p>I dissolved into tears on my bed last night shaking while Tony held me as I said over and over...how dare he...how F'ing dare he! I AM NOT MY MOTHER! Tony just kept repeating over and over...no honey...you arent, you were a good mother, you were nothing like her, you did everything you could do for him. </p><p></p><p>I dont think I can ever feel the same way about him again. He crossed a line with me that can never be uncrossed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 191351, member: 1514"] There are a few huge triggers for me in my life. One of which is my mother. She was my main abuser in my life. I have been in therapy for the last several years to try and work through that. No one...but no one...had better ever compare me to her because I have worked too damned hard to convince myself that I AM NOT MY MOTHER! I am just now getting to the point where I can say to myself that I am not a worthless piece of you know what because that is what she always told me. I dont need someone I gave birth to undoing what I have worked so hard to overcome. I wont allow it. I dissolved into tears on my bed last night shaking while Tony held me as I said over and over...how dare he...how F'ing dare he! I AM NOT MY MOTHER! Tony just kept repeating over and over...no honey...you arent, you were a good mother, you were nothing like her, you did everything you could do for him. I dont think I can ever feel the same way about him again. He crossed a line with me that can never be uncrossed. [/QUOTE]
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