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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 609423" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Sven, TL, RE and all...</p><p></p><p>I wasn't going to post about young difficult child till I knew more but it seems young difficult child is at a hospital right now. </p><p>We don't know what "kind" of hospital at the moment. </p><p></p><p>Apparently, young difficult child did make a sell on his Lego's. A sell that he was sent more than half the money for yesterday. He immediately left his mother in law's and apparently went to buy drugs. He came back crying to his son (who is only 5 yrs old!) and his mother in law about what a bad dad he is. He left in the middle of the night and this morning I got a text from him saying "call me it's important". I did call him and found out about him being in the hospital (supposibly re his pacemaker). husband thinks he is there to get more drugs. </p><p></p><p>I just spoke with daughter in law again and she tells me that young difficult child texted her one last time and said that his truck was at the hospital and that he would be "gone" awhile and would be back and need the rest of his things. </p><p></p><p>The last text I got from him said, </p><p>"I don't want to see any of you anyway. I don't want a funeral so if something happens ya'll better not hold one."</p><p></p><p>From all the conversations I've had with daughter in law today all I hear over and over is self pity and victimhood. </p><p>I hope and pray he will get the help he so desperately needs. </p><p></p><p>Meanwhile, daughter in law is coming to some realisations...Mainly that she keeps cleaning up after young difficult child's messes.</p><p>She will be shipping the Legos off to Ca tomorrow as the man buying them for his son is now threatening action if he doesn't receive them soon. daughter in law also shared with me a text difficult child sent to this man using daughter in law's phone... basically emotionally unraveling to him. Young difficult child has also contacted his last previous employer and told him he is in the hospital. It sounds like he wants someone to save him, in my opinion. But he has used everyone up. </p><p></p><p>daughter in law was cooking when I just called her, baby crying to be fed, then bath time, story book time and bed. Up early tomorrow for grandson's kindergarten class and then daughter in law will need to ship these Legos off to Ca. </p><p>All the while taking care of her mother who is barely getting around due to just having knee surgery this past week. </p><p></p><p>Yep, young difficult child was given SO SO much...and none of it was enough and he feels no sense of responsibility towards anyone...not even his children. </p><p></p><p>I try to remember what Ant'smom always says at the bottom of her page, </p><p>"God has a plan". </p><p></p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 609423, member: 3305"] Sven, TL, RE and all... I wasn't going to post about young difficult child till I knew more but it seems young difficult child is at a hospital right now. We don't know what "kind" of hospital at the moment. Apparently, young difficult child did make a sell on his Lego's. A sell that he was sent more than half the money for yesterday. He immediately left his mother in law's and apparently went to buy drugs. He came back crying to his son (who is only 5 yrs old!) and his mother in law about what a bad dad he is. He left in the middle of the night and this morning I got a text from him saying "call me it's important". I did call him and found out about him being in the hospital (supposibly re his pacemaker). husband thinks he is there to get more drugs. I just spoke with daughter in law again and she tells me that young difficult child texted her one last time and said that his truck was at the hospital and that he would be "gone" awhile and would be back and need the rest of his things. The last text I got from him said, "I don't want to see any of you anyway. I don't want a funeral so if something happens ya'll better not hold one." From all the conversations I've had with daughter in law today all I hear over and over is self pity and victimhood. I hope and pray he will get the help he so desperately needs. Meanwhile, daughter in law is coming to some realisations...Mainly that she keeps cleaning up after young difficult child's messes. She will be shipping the Legos off to Ca tomorrow as the man buying them for his son is now threatening action if he doesn't receive them soon. daughter in law also shared with me a text difficult child sent to this man using daughter in law's phone... basically emotionally unraveling to him. Young difficult child has also contacted his last previous employer and told him he is in the hospital. It sounds like he wants someone to save him, in my opinion. But he has used everyone up. daughter in law was cooking when I just called her, baby crying to be fed, then bath time, story book time and bed. Up early tomorrow for grandson's kindergarten class and then daughter in law will need to ship these Legos off to Ca. All the while taking care of her mother who is barely getting around due to just having knee surgery this past week. Yep, young difficult child was given SO SO much...and none of it was enough and he feels no sense of responsibility towards anyone...not even his children. I try to remember what Ant'smom always says at the bottom of her page, "God has a plan". LMS [/QUOTE]
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