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Every time I think... (long vent)
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<blockquote data-quote="Alttlgabby" data-source="post: 246311" data-attributes="member: 6786"><p>I am so sorry you are so frustrated! Your husband sounds as though he is such an enabler and needs some counseling himself. Maybe you should make your husband a list of things around the house that need to be cleaned, taken care of, restocked, etc due to your son. And your husband has to understand that ds is now an adult and needs a JOB to help pay his way if he is going to stay in your home. That there are RULES and they need to be followed or he can go find his own place to set his own rules and then if he wants to live in filth and stay in bed and can't pay the rent, then that is HIS own fault and not yours. I know we all love our children, but sometimes we have to put our foot down and say NO MORE enabling, and it is time for them to grow up!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Alttlgabby, post: 246311, member: 6786"] I am so sorry you are so frustrated! Your husband sounds as though he is such an enabler and needs some counseling himself. Maybe you should make your husband a list of things around the house that need to be cleaned, taken care of, restocked, etc due to your son. And your husband has to understand that ds is now an adult and needs a JOB to help pay his way if he is going to stay in your home. That there are RULES and they need to be followed or he can go find his own place to set his own rules and then if he wants to live in filth and stay in bed and can't pay the rent, then that is HIS own fault and not yours. I know we all love our children, but sometimes we have to put our foot down and say NO MORE enabling, and it is time for them to grow up! [/QUOTE]
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