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Hi All,
Wow, I have had no out of the "normal behaviors" with my daughter until now. Yes, spoiled both of them especially her when she was the "only child". She has been refusing to clean her room, do anything but watch T.V, play hours on end of Wii and computer. She throws a tantrum over almost anything now! She has been slamming doors and breaking stuff lately! I figure because she watches her little brother do it. I do not let him get away with it as I do take away privileges and stuff from him, now the same with her! So I am usually here complaining about my 5 year old not her! So I am so stressed, my grandfather is very,very ill,may be hospitalized soon, and may not come back out,stay there the rest of his life, which seems not to be too long. ..My father is in very poor health as well( both severe heart trouble etc) and as far as my health, well, I am a stress eater and now have gained 5 pounds. I am obese and want to loose weight,haven't been to the Dr in 51/2 years. Not the money part, but due to something that happened to me,hence,gained more weight and now, fear of what may be wrong! I do have some issues as we speak. I am going though this month. My kids are always going and they ask me when do I go. Sometimes they say they think there daddy's will be better, he has no rules, lets them drink alcohol, watch porn, around his daily different women, violent friends, and the list goes on and on. Oh yea, because he usually only has them a day or two once a month or when he feels like it,he buys fast food,takes them to museums and stuff. But I know on a permanent basis, that would stop.I'm no where near perfect and have room to improve, but they just don't see its up to them also, all of us as a family. We all can get upset, but not outraged! I don't know, just venting!
Confused
Wow, I have had no out of the "normal behaviors" with my daughter until now. Yes, spoiled both of them especially her when she was the "only child". She has been refusing to clean her room, do anything but watch T.V, play hours on end of Wii and computer. She throws a tantrum over almost anything now! She has been slamming doors and breaking stuff lately! I figure because she watches her little brother do it. I do not let him get away with it as I do take away privileges and stuff from him, now the same with her! So I am usually here complaining about my 5 year old not her! So I am so stressed, my grandfather is very,very ill,may be hospitalized soon, and may not come back out,stay there the rest of his life, which seems not to be too long. ..My father is in very poor health as well( both severe heart trouble etc) and as far as my health, well, I am a stress eater and now have gained 5 pounds. I am obese and want to loose weight,haven't been to the Dr in 51/2 years. Not the money part, but due to something that happened to me,hence,gained more weight and now, fear of what may be wrong! I do have some issues as we speak. I am going though this month. My kids are always going and they ask me when do I go. Sometimes they say they think there daddy's will be better, he has no rules, lets them drink alcohol, watch porn, around his daily different women, violent friends, and the list goes on and on. Oh yea, because he usually only has them a day or two once a month or when he feels like it,he buys fast food,takes them to museums and stuff. But I know on a permanent basis, that would stop.I'm no where near perfect and have room to improve, but they just don't see its up to them also, all of us as a family. We all can get upset, but not outraged! I don't know, just venting!
Confused