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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 381971" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Barbara</p><p></p><p>I'd try it if it would work but frankly it won't. husband just plain doesn't give a d*mn about anything unless or until it personally affects HIM. The world is supposed to be centered around him and his needs, wants, desires, ect.</p><p></p><p>It only took him 2 hrs but he finally noticed the post. And then had the nerve to think holding a trash bag for me was enough for him to go sit on his tuckus again to play his game. I blew. I don't blow often and I didn't even attempt to be nice.</p><p></p><p>Odd even with as OMG bad as the kitchen was.....it only took 2 of us less than an hour for a job that alone would've taken me most of the day. No it's not completely done. The frig needs cleaned out and the cabinets and floor needs cleaned. But the trash and filth is gone.</p><p></p><p>So while I'm in difficult child attitude mode.........cause at this point I don't give a jack d*mn if the man stays or goes.........I told him I wanted the supports put on the kitchen hutch and I wanted it NOW. He said give him a min and I said NOW! I've been waiting 3 months I'm not waiting a moment longer! Then he had nerve to mumble something about how he tried to clean and well he did clean the bathroom.......... Uh, no sorry. Not even once bud. I said you call a clean bathroom one that has grim and meldew around the toilet for god knows how long CLEAN?? (I won't gross you out with the rest of the bathroom. I keep the litterbox and shower clean) I told him he'll be lucky I can get it all removed and we don't have to tear out tile simply cuz he was too lazy to clean it when he was supposed to! </p><p></p><p>Then I threw it up to him that when we moved in I was supposed to get a utility cabinet to put my towels and sheets in. Instead they've been sitting on cheap plastic shelving for all these years. Told him I'm SICK of waiting and go get it NOW!! And while I was having my major difficult child tantrum..........told him that my bathroom decor ducks from walmart not too expensive but darn cute.......well he and the kids had fun destroying it all so guess what? He's going to go onto ebay and replace it all!!!</p><p></p><p>Today Momma ain't happy Momma is livid and getting more so as I make my way thru each room to clean. Too much of my stuff I waited a lifetime for has been ruined, broken, treated like it meant nothing. I HAVE HAD IT!!!!</p><p></p><p>husband is only helping me because I am livid. IF I ever manage to calm down........which is iffy at this point.........he will go right back to the same behavior he has had for 27 yrs.</p><p></p><p>I didn't ask husband to run the household while I was at school. All I asked him to do was keep it cleaned up so I could whip thru and do the big cleaning on days I didn't have school. There were no kids at home. Just him. How frigging hard can it possibly be?? He didn't have to cook. Just keep the d*mn place picked up! OMG He didn't mow the grass ONCE this whole year. Nichole did. Nichole and I did the jungle of weeds in the backyard cuz he wouldn't get off his backside!</p><p></p><p>No. It's not a matter of not knowing where to start or even what to do. husband knows. His only desire is to sit a vegetate on the f-ing couch all day stuffing his face full of food and b*tching and everything and telling Travis to do all the stuff he is supposed to do.</p><p></p><p>My mouth is killing me. (thanks to the cleaning I guess) My kidney is killing me. (guessing the medications are taking a toll and giving me issues there) Even the 1st day I came home from the dentist.......he didn't lift a single finger to help me with anything. No consideration for anyone at anytime.</p><p></p><p>He tells me he can't do yard work cuz it hurts his back and he'll have a stroke or heart attack. Are you kidding me?? I've already had a heart attack, I have kidney disease.........and I work my fanny off anyway! </p><p></p><p>Nope lists won't do it. Only thing that gets him moving is the hint that if he doesn't he's out the door in the next few mins. </p><p></p><p>I am 46 yrs old. I can't maintain that constant state of livid it would take to make him act......and "act" it would be......like a human being.</p><p></p><p>And as he ages...........he just continues to get worse and worse. He once said I'd went to nursing school so I could take care of him when he's too old or sick. I said hades NO! I'll have your fanny in a nursing home so fast you're head will spin!! And yeah I meant it too.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /></p><p></p><p>And worst of it..........he is ruining all the antique furniture his mother entrusted to me. It makes me want to kill the man.</p><p></p><p>I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooo on a new level of enraged and fed up. argh!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 381971, member: 84"] Barbara I'd try it if it would work but frankly it won't. husband just plain doesn't give a d*mn about anything unless or until it personally affects HIM. The world is supposed to be centered around him and his needs, wants, desires, ect. It only took him 2 hrs but he finally noticed the post. And then had the nerve to think holding a trash bag for me was enough for him to go sit on his tuckus again to play his game. I blew. I don't blow often and I didn't even attempt to be nice. Odd even with as OMG bad as the kitchen was.....it only took 2 of us less than an hour for a job that alone would've taken me most of the day. No it's not completely done. The frig needs cleaned out and the cabinets and floor needs cleaned. But the trash and filth is gone. So while I'm in difficult child attitude mode.........cause at this point I don't give a jack d*mn if the man stays or goes.........I told him I wanted the supports put on the kitchen hutch and I wanted it NOW. He said give him a min and I said NOW! I've been waiting 3 months I'm not waiting a moment longer! Then he had nerve to mumble something about how he tried to clean and well he did clean the bathroom.......... Uh, no sorry. Not even once bud. I said you call a clean bathroom one that has grim and meldew around the toilet for god knows how long CLEAN?? (I won't gross you out with the rest of the bathroom. I keep the litterbox and shower clean) I told him he'll be lucky I can get it all removed and we don't have to tear out tile simply cuz he was too lazy to clean it when he was supposed to! Then I threw it up to him that when we moved in I was supposed to get a utility cabinet to put my towels and sheets in. Instead they've been sitting on cheap plastic shelving for all these years. Told him I'm SICK of waiting and go get it NOW!! And while I was having my major difficult child tantrum..........told him that my bathroom decor ducks from walmart not too expensive but darn cute.......well he and the kids had fun destroying it all so guess what? He's going to go onto ebay and replace it all!!! Today Momma ain't happy Momma is livid and getting more so as I make my way thru each room to clean. Too much of my stuff I waited a lifetime for has been ruined, broken, treated like it meant nothing. I HAVE HAD IT!!!! husband is only helping me because I am livid. IF I ever manage to calm down........which is iffy at this point.........he will go right back to the same behavior he has had for 27 yrs. I didn't ask husband to run the household while I was at school. All I asked him to do was keep it cleaned up so I could whip thru and do the big cleaning on days I didn't have school. There were no kids at home. Just him. How frigging hard can it possibly be?? He didn't have to cook. Just keep the d*mn place picked up! OMG He didn't mow the grass ONCE this whole year. Nichole did. Nichole and I did the jungle of weeds in the backyard cuz he wouldn't get off his backside! No. It's not a matter of not knowing where to start or even what to do. husband knows. His only desire is to sit a vegetate on the f-ing couch all day stuffing his face full of food and b*tching and everything and telling Travis to do all the stuff he is supposed to do. My mouth is killing me. (thanks to the cleaning I guess) My kidney is killing me. (guessing the medications are taking a toll and giving me issues there) Even the 1st day I came home from the dentist.......he didn't lift a single finger to help me with anything. No consideration for anyone at anytime. He tells me he can't do yard work cuz it hurts his back and he'll have a stroke or heart attack. Are you kidding me?? I've already had a heart attack, I have kidney disease.........and I work my fanny off anyway! Nope lists won't do it. Only thing that gets him moving is the hint that if he doesn't he's out the door in the next few mins. I am 46 yrs old. I can't maintain that constant state of livid it would take to make him act......and "act" it would be......like a human being. And as he ages...........he just continues to get worse and worse. He once said I'd went to nursing school so I could take care of him when he's too old or sick. I said hades NO! I'll have your fanny in a nursing home so fast you're head will spin!! And yeah I meant it too.:angry: And worst of it..........he is ruining all the antique furniture his mother entrusted to me. It makes me want to kill the man. I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooo on a new level of enraged and fed up. argh!!!! [/QUOTE]
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